In 2019? I disagree.
Sex does not matter to women these days. For her to be vulnerable through sex does not mean anything. It’s fun, it’s flattering, and society rewards her for it.
But for her initiate a text? THAT makes her vulnerable. Why? It’s in writing and shows she wants an emotional connection and she may, God forbid, show she cares about the man. That puts her in a dangerous position.
You shouldn’t, but if you put it in writing, you will
GAF. She will use it against you.
TOO risky. Men remember, NOTHING in writing.
It’s not about leading. It’s about the man protecting himself.
Remember, you are not battling her, you battling the system, state, society, and public opinion.
It seems like all the successful sosuave posters are dealing with hot movie actresses who will submit at any cost and sleep with them. Don’t know where you guys meet these women.
I’ve been screwed over so so many times by leading and putting things in writing. I could give you thousands of examples. One example, I phoned a woman once after sex with a “hey, how are you?” She recorded me to take me to court.
It’s brutal out there.