"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Long-term female friend "would you date me"

Mongo720

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I will call my friend "Missy" 46yo

Backstory: Missy and I have been friends for few years and I truly enjoy her companionship, we flirt and just have fun together. Few moths ago she announces she wants me to meet her friend and I agree. Start dating said friend(Becky) and actually hit it off rather well, I'm still dating Becky !
Now fast forward few weeks..

Missy invites me out to drink and do our normal stuff. I go into the night knowing this might be a "**** test" or something they schemed up, as Becky is working this night. I did make Becky aware I was going out with our mutual friend

Missy gets drunk, starts saying crazy stuff "I should have scooped you up" "I need a real man like you" I shrug everything off, because I think Becky might just be a quality female. Then boom she tries to kiss and push things.... I then realized this wasn't a **** test of any type!!
This whole thing reminds me that some women will destroy anything if they want to get laid and friendzone can turn into more.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Mongo720

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Few days later I hinted to Becky her "friend" asked me if I would date date her. That seems to have lit an even bigger competition within her now!
 

bat soup

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I will call my friend "Missy" 46yo

Backstory: Missy and I have been friends for few years and I truly enjoy her companionship, we flirt and just have fun together. Few moths ago she announces she wants me to meet her friend and I agree. Start dating said friend(Becky) and actually hit it off rather well, I'm still dating Becky !
Now fast forward few weeks..

Missy invites me out to drink and do our normal stuff. I go into the night knowing this might be a "**** test" or something they schemed up, as Becky is working this night. I did make Becky aware I was going out with our mutual friend

Missy gets drunk, starts saying crazy stuff "I should have scooped you up" "I need a real man like you" I shrug everything off, because I think Becky might just be a quality female. Then boom she tries to kiss and push things.... I then realized this wasn't a **** test of any type!!
This whole thing reminds me that some women will destroy anything if they want to get laid and friendzone can turn into more.
If that's what she wanted she should have taken some initiative instead of introducing you to her friend.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BackInTheGame78

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She probably thought differently of you until her friend started telling her stuff and then she realized the image she had in her mind of you was all wrong and she became a lot more attracted to you.
 
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