“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Take it, yes, stand around? Fuuck no.

The message is either learn how to be inspired by it and grow from it or kill yourself. Those are the options. There's no third option of whining like a biitch or doing nothing. He says just kill yourself if you're going to do that and then explains why lol I love it.
Seneca said it better, and actually did kill himself.

Look it up. Fvcking beast.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Seneca said it better, and actually did kill himself.

Look it up. Fvcking beast.
Eh but Seneca was commanded to kill himself. Zeno is the real OG, went out by holding his breath. Now that's beast.
 

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You just learned about zeno, because of me. Don't lie.

Who is he?
Lol you always try to instigate a diick swinging competition. You don't have to prove anything to me.
 

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Socially?
How to win friends and influence people

Women?
The book of Pook

They both emphasize just not caring and do what you want in social interactions.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Socially?
How to win friends and influence people

Women?
The book of Pook

They both emphasize just not caring and do what you want in social interactions.
How to win friends and pook, both placate, constantly.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Of course they were. Think it out for a bit, babe. Then get back to me
 

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Write what out? I study stoicism dude, you've taught me nothing lol.



I'm not a mod. You must be smoking some good stuff tonight.
Well, that takes the fun out of it. Sorry, bro. but it took me 2 seconds to work you
 

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@EyeOnThePrize stop deleting my posts. Were they defamatory in any way?
You posted 10 consecutive times uninterrupted.

Half of these posts were attempts to needlessly bicker with multiple members, without any member contributing or responding in between these 10 posts. As a result, half of them were deleted.

Continuing to provoke others in this manner is harassment. As you're well aware, harassing other members is against the forum rules.

Per the forum rules:
* If you insult, harass, or disrespect any member of this forum, you will be banned from the forum.
I get your schtick is to instigate and troll sometimes, but you're derailing the thread...

It's Saturday night. I'll give you the benefit of the doubt that perhaps you've had a few cold ones and are feeling a little chatty tonight.

Locking this thread for 8 hours so it doesn't get derailed overnight.
 

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The 50th Law was Robert Greene's best book, in my opinion.

One of my favorites, too
How was 50th law different from the previous Robert Greene books? I've read all of them except his newest one and they're very similar in content. 48 laws of power is sufficient to know the message imo.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The 50th Law was Robert Greene's best book, in my opinion.

One of my favorites, too
I like it alot.
I'm about 30 pages in.

To be your self and to be fearless at it.
I had no idea how strong 50 cent was. Fascinating coauthor venture in this book.



I also got 48 laws yesterday. It looks as detailed as that Howard Zinn 'people's history of the u nited s tates book' I hope I can get through it.
 

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Can't Hurt Me (David Goggins)
Escape The Wolf --- this is for interacting in foreign countries as a government representative, businessman or simply as a tourist traveling into more restricted places
 

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You talking for social anxiety or just a different view of the same world you have lived in?

To me they are 2 different things
Both. Having a fundamental knowledge on why humans do the things they do makes you more confident. Anxiety stems from ignorance.
 

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For me "the rational male", "how to win friends and influence people" and "48 laws of power" have been the most profound. What about you guys? Any recommendations?
"Influence", by Robert Cialdini. It highlights six marketing techniques, but it's really about human psychology - you can apply it just as well to hanging out with friends, dating, etc.

About Robert Greene's books like the 48 Laws of Power, I'm reading them now; I see the valid points, but I wish it was more concrete with practical lessons. It seems a bit like reading fortune-cookies. Maybe I'm just not clever enough. For example, Law #16 tells you "scarcity increases value". In the Rational Male, he says something like "don't be available to see her on weekends if she's not a solid plate". To me the second is more useful, as I don't always see how Greene's laws are supposed to play out in terms of concrete actions.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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