"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Anyone here shave their heads?

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I was thinking about that during this year... And Im thinking to change my hair style.

It have some spiritual meaning for me too... As this year I've changed a lot of stuffs and made hard decisions... Maybe it can be a way to make symbolize that.

Also, no more money spent cutting my hair.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I shave mine.

Fortunately I have a good enough head shape that it suits me.

I always kept my hair really short (like a military fade) due to two cowlicks located on my crown and front hairline that were nearly impossible to tame, so shaving it completely wasn't a big shock to me.

My hairline is receding mildly at the temples, but not bad enough where if I grew my hair out for a few weeks it would look bad.

I recommend shaving your head and see how you like it. Your hair will grow back if you change your mind.
 

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I shave mine.

Fortunately I have a good enough head shape that it suits me.

I always kept my hair really short (like a military fade) due to two cowlicks located on my crown and front hairline that were nearly impossible to tame, so shaving it completely wasn't a big shock to me.

My hairline is receding mildly at the temples, but not bad enough where if I grew my hair out for a few weeks it would look bad.

I recommend shaving your head and see how you like it. Your hair will grow back if you change your mind.
Gonna try it tomorrow... Hope it doesnt get too weird haha.

But I analyzed my head and maybe it could be good. Gonna find that out.
 

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Best decision I ever made. There’s also pride in being able to groom yourself.
Im feeling that this will be good too. I just hope to dont have a weird head.

It seems it gives some nice style.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Which is better?
Being real with you, the regular razorblades. I used Harry's razorblades to shave my head during lockdown primarily, even though they warn you on the packaging not to use it on anything other than your face. But with their shaving cream, it works well. Sometimes I would use the super cheap BIC razors but end up cutting my head in spots. The electric razor wasn't always the best at getting every spot, and being in military uniform back then, my bosses wouldn't like that.
 

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I was thinking about that during this year... And Im thinking to change my hair style.

It have some spiritual meaning for me too... As this year I've changed a lot of stuffs and made hard decisions... Maybe it can be a way to make symbolize that.

Also, no more money spent cutting my hair.
I do as I've developed bald spots about 10 years ago. Originally I tried hair sprinkles on the bald spot, but then if was mis-applied then it looked too ugly or obvious. Then I just decided to shave everything off. There is a difference of texture where the scalp is where no hair is growing vs there is hair, as the bald spot is smooth like leather. But, I think it does help and I notice subtly positive quality of interactions with women if my hair is properly shaved, not enough to say "wow", but definitely enough to notice something.
Also, if it's shaved totally down then it comes like a type of white-max as my hair is distinctly Black - I have that old Black man look with unkept greyed hair.
 

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Being real with you, the regular razorblades. I used Harry's razorblades to shave my head during lockdown primarily, even though they warn you on the packaging not to use it on anything other than your face. But with their shaving cream, it works well. Sometimes I would use the super cheap BIC razors but end up cutting my head in spots. The electric razor wasn't always the best at getting every spot, and being in military uniform back then, my bosses wouldn't like that.
Thanks man!

I think I'm gonna start with the electric too see if I will like it. I'm still a bit afraid to do that haha.

I don't know how my face would look after that. But I'll take courage to that.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I do as I've developed bald spots about 10 years ago. Originally I tried hair sprinkles on the bald spot, but then if was mis-applied then it looked too ugly or obvious. Then I just decided to shave everything off. There is a difference of texture where the scalp is where no hair is growing vs there is hair, as the bald spot is smooth like leather. But, I think it does help and I notice subtly positive quality of interactions with women if my hair is properly shaved, not enough to say "wow", but definitely enough to notice something.
Also, if it's shaved totally down then it comes like a type of white-max as my hair is distinctly Black - I have that old Black man look with unkept greyed hair.
Thats nice man! I'm curious to check how my head would like withou my hair haha.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Barrister and mann makes the best shave soap in existence. Also made in the usa, if you give a fvck
 

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I'm actually shaving my head for two and a half years now, it's not bald but it's shaved,0" millimeters on sides and 1mm on top so it's basically the same. It's the best decision you can do, no hair gels, no problems with hair or anything and also women loves it more.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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