"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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With this one fake video she has harvested fame, fortune and an army of simps that is big enough to invade Belgium.
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LINK?
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Her jaw seems misaligned, but I wouldn't kick her out of bed.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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But, But, But, muh MaLe pRiVeLeGe!!1!
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I would after I finished.
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This chick is definitely NOT hot.
agreed
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You gotta understand that chick probably has like aspergers or autism. She probably didn't have any friends and thats totally believable. I don't think its attention whoring. Lots of people who are on the spectrum have trouble socializing or with social cues/emotions.
I'm not calling you ignorant or anything. I just hope you realize that now. also, what @BackInTheGame78 said lol
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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I just watched that video, her name is Myra or something. From the get go you can sense she's so hungry for other people attention. Making sad faces to lure all the WKs in her comment section. Also she's into playing a victim too much.
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Howard did she reacted when you ditched her? Did she chase you?
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These types of women never really go away. They'll hit you up again years later to see if they can hook you again.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Agree, total mess. Some may be bdp possibly.
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You and everyone else posting or reading this thread should realize, if you don't already, that behaving like this is the norm for young women today. Their entire existence literally revolves around the amount of attention that they can garner, whether that be from thirsty men or other women boosting their ego. A few weeks ago on my youtube feed there was this girl who looked like she was maybe 14 doing a swimwear try on video.
It's simply just the way it is but one of the things that I know for a fact will happen is this. When these women get older the amount of attention they get will begin to fade with their looks. These women will have a very difficult time handling this change and I can only imagine how much of a mess they will be internally. It's a little unfortunate because they didn't really wake up and just decide to behave in such a manner, instead our current social and dating culture more or less conditioned them to be like this.
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While there are some women who are BPD, far far too many women on these forums are classified as BPD.
Sometimes based on what I read on these forums I would think 70% of women are BPD when it is well under 5%.