"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I wish I remember that movie better. What did Keanu's character say? That he was here for the ads? I'll watch it again.
I think his mentor sent him to the witch doctor. So the voodoo guy who did the ritual with the cows tongue said "think of it as spiritual currency". I don't remember what Keanu said.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I wish I remember that movie better. What did Keanu's character say? That he was here for the ads? I'll watch it again.

I think I know what you mean anyways.
I like the 'spiritual currency' phrase because that is what we trade when disappointed in our loved one or even ourselves.
That youtuber Dr.BoA had an episode on the mind and spirit being interdependent although that wasn't the title of the video.

Basically, when someone or even ourselves spends out of the spiritual account it can take so very , very long to rebuild your spiritual holdings.

Is there another angle I don't see yet?
ok thanks
 

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I just saw the 17 year difference between her hubby and the singer.

Its just sex.

Too bad the hubby couldn't also have a girl 17(16)years younger than his wife so noone would have to divorce.

Poor kids having to read about this in the media for decades to come.
True. Well he could cheated with someone a little younger and rekindled her interest lol.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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True. Well he could cheated with someone a little younger and rekindled her interest lol.
that doesn't work with these entitled women. Competition anxiety on the female only works in oldschool relationships(different generation)

Women today don't have to let their hamster wheels spin with the man playing dread game.

Too much abundance.

What other techniques could he use?. Why even have her work on movie sets where she can meet these gun kelly dudes?

Could have insisted she stay home.
 

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that doesn't work with these entitled women. Competition anxiety on the female only works in oldschool relationships(different generation)

Women today don't have to let their hamster wheels spin with the man playing dread game.

Too much abundance.

What other techniques could he use?. Why even have her work on movie sets where she can meet these gun kelly dudes?

Could have insisted she stay home.
once again, like the Beatles' song, "you've got to hide your love away"
 

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that doesn't work with these entitled women. Competition anxiety on the female only works in oldschool relationships(different generation)

Women today don't have to let their hamster wheels spin with the man playing dread game.

Too much abundance.

What other techniques could he use?. Why even have her work on movie sets where she can meet these gun kelly dudes?

Could have insisted she stay home.
It's different types of new schools. A certain type is a real "player " and she's gonna win. So that trick would amp her up for a little bit at least.
 

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Yes, you're right, for a little bit at least.

What I'm seeing is more men having to hamster and go dye their hair, lose 40 pounds, take on new archetypes to keep these women who are being allowed too many options.

Like, I know you know I'm female but I'm really trying to help solve the bigger mating strategy type problems.

It comes down to the man keeping a tighter leash on his woman.

I know you feel me on this and its not politically correct but the man simply must start forbidding these wives to go out in the working world. That's enough of that experiment.
 

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Nah, fake news. The real reason she's divorcing him is that I'm coming to America!
Now honestly, who cares? She never did strike me as a quality girl. But who am I to judge?
Could be the whole "I'm attractive so I think that's enough to get me through life without becoming better in any way" syndrome. Something that also hits me sometimes, even tho I'm probably not in the top 10% when it comes to looks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yes, you're right, for a little bit at least.

What I'm seeing is more men having to hamster and go dye their hair, lose 40 pounds, take on new archetypes to keep these women who are being allowed too many options.

Like, I know you know I'm female but I'm really trying to help solve the bigger mating strategy type problems.

It comes down to the man keeping a tighter leash on his woman.

I know you feel me on this and its not politically correct but the man simply must start forbidding these wives to go out in the working world. That's enough of that experiment.
Christie that man will be crucified like Christ.
 

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People do sue to at least get some of their energy back. The Johnny Depp court cases aren't all about green cash. It's about his image, pain and suffering and spiritual currency.
Here goes one. Some will call Depp "bad " because he didn't have a perfect image and thusly deserving of mental and physical abuse.
 

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Here goes one. Some will call Depp "bad " because he didn't have a perfect image and thusly deserving of mental and physical abuse.
In North America we don't even mentally or physically abuse prison inmates in the spirit of rehabilitation.
Someone considered 'bad' doesn't need abuse they need the opposite-love and patience to develop into 'good'

I have no idea if that actor is 'bad'.

I remember seeing a pic of him dressed up in his Pirates' movie character and beside a cancer kid who wanted to meet 'Jack Sparrow' So that was a good thing to do.


I think I remember him making a few social justice type comments on some controversial stuff-I could be mistaking him for someone else-maybe this personal trauma is about the 'evil eye' thing you and Double (sosuave member) tried to warn me about.

This is the extent of knowledge someone like me who stopped watching tv 2 decades ago(donated it to goodwill)and doesn't buy magazines anymore(I read a bunch in one sitting at a library a few times a year to keep current on fashion and good gossip. I never touch C osmo or Nat'l En quirer types)

And now I've been off social media for almost5 or 6 months now.

I would have never known Johnny Depp was experiencing any negativity before reading this forum.
 
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In North America we don't even mentally or physically abuse prison inmates in the spirit of rehabilitation.
Someone considered 'bad' doesn't need abuse they need the opposite-love and patience to develop into 'good'

I have no idea if that actor is 'bad'.

I remember seeing a pic of him dressed up in his Pirates' movie character and beside a cancer kid who wanted to meet 'Jack Sparrow' So that was a good thing to do.


I think I remember him making a few social justice type comments on some controversial stuff-I could be mistaking him for someone else-maybe this personal trauma is about the 'evil eye' thing you and Double (sosuave member) tried to warn me about.

This is the extent of knowledge someone like me who stopped watching tv 2 decades ago(donated it to goodwill)and doesn't buy magazines anymore(I read a bunch in one sitting at a library a few times a year to keep current on fashion and good gossip. I never touch C osmo or Nat'l En quirer types)

And now I've been off social media for almost5 or 6 months now.

I would have never known Johnny Depp was experiencing any negativity before reading this forum.
I'm sure he has a lot of "great guy" moments. But the "world" can be angry for him, because he was a mild partier at times ( like most Hollywooders ), and I believe it's said he "tore up a hotel room". I'm curious if this is during Amber.

So since he tore up a hotel room, the assumption came that he was violent towards women.

Evil eye is real, and watch their energy, and watch how your energy is in interaction with that other person. It will tell you alot.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I see it. What would you tell him to do?
It's within himself. I'm not sure I would say anything unless they asked. I would say most of the situations or positions that cause us to continually complain about are obviously ones that don't set well with us, we shouldn't be doing it.
 

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MGK's new Punk album is not half bad, he departed from Rap it seems, not surprised to see him attaching himself to a married woman since you can't really clout chase as a Punk artist and be taken seriously.
He got a hair transplant and started wearing dresses. Is that what passes for punk these days? I admit I haven't heard the music. Thought he was a lame rapper and generally uninteresting person before. I know he did some acting, think he played Tommy Lee in the Crue movie. A lot of women seem to like the emaciated addict full body tat look, doesn't make sense to me but I can't question or be mad about it.
 

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Actors/actresses and celebrities often live in different worlds than the rest of us do.

When Brian Austin Green and Megan Fox got together in 2004, he was a 30 year old has been coming off of Beverly Hills 90210. Fox was 18.

16 years is a long run for a relationship. Brian got Megan Fox's absolute prime. From 2004-2011, she was considered quite hot.

Megan Fox, if she didn't have affairs, definitely got tied down young. She might want to make up for lost time. Even with her looks, there's not a lot of demand for a 34 year old with 3 kids.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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