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I'm scared of actually catching something from rawdog. How safe is it?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Are you looking forward to Herpes?I'm scared of actually catching something from rawdog. How safe is it?
as safe as walking in the middle of a highway in the middle of nightI'm scared of actually catching something from rawdog. How safe is it?
YOLO my friend. Experience is a cruel teacher.I'm scared of actually catching something from rawdog. How safe is it?
I had a burning sensation for a month after a raw dog. Went to the clinic got tested came back negative. The burning persistent, went to another clinic and got tested again... negative they gave me antibiotics and whatever it was it cleared up.YOLO my friend. Experience is a cruel teacher.
I once got Chlamydia from a rawdog, That tingling pain will open your mind if you should rawdog or not- the next time.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Less than 100%, that's all you need to know. Don't gamble with the family jewels.How safe is it?
Condoms are rated 50% against herpes? Is that right? A lot of people get the sores in areas a condom won't cover.Are you looking forward to Herpes?
Same here. I can barely get it up with a condom on let alone finish the job. Rawdog style is risky. If you do it you have to be willing to own the riskI’ve done it often. Girls hate condoms. But, I’m not saying rawdogging is wise.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yes!I believe the first line of defence is to pick correctly the girl you are having sex with.
Its a scary feeling my brother. I wish this feeling on no one, cause youre stuck in uncertainty city until the doc says you're good.I had a burning sensation for a month after a raw dog. Went to the clinic got tested came back negative. The burning persistent, went to another clinic and got tested again... negative they gave me antibiotics and whatever it was it cleared up.
I was confused by this so I did some independent research, apparently if you are uncut the foreskin acts of a defense mechanism for unfamiliar bacteria. I would always get a burning sensation after sex or ******* and always came back negative
My previous GF missed her period once. Needless to say, I was drenched in cold sweat for about a week.Same here. I can barely get it up with a condom on let alone finish the job. Rawdog style is risky. If you do it you have to be willing to own the risk
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Rubbing alcohol wipe down immediately after sex.... Then wash with soap and water. The alcohol will kill ALOT. The soap and water is to rinse the alcohol off.Condoms are rated 50% against herpes? Is that right? A lot of people get the sores in areas a condom won't cover.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.