"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Learning Masculine texting from examples

Knight of Roses

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Thought I'd share a story with yall.

Was at a strip club the other day, talking to this girl which I've seen a few times. She's pretty friendly and fun to talk to, so I bought her a few drinks and we were just hanging out. It was slow (I went in early evening on weekday) so she wasn't in a mindset to make $$$.

During the conversation, she tells me she had banged "The Game". For those that don't know, The Game is a rapper who was well known about a decade or so ago, was in G Unit with 50 Cent at one point and had a few hit singles. Not much about him since then, but probably still relevant in the Urban black / hip hop community. Whatever, I don't really care, but anyways, I wanted her to prove it. So, she whips out her Instagram and shows me her conversation with him.

I dont care who he is, or that she banged him. What I thought was interesting.... was his texting pattern. This man would keep his replies to a single line. No emojis, no smiley face girly sh1t, no "Hey You :), Good Morning". The occasional "Lol" was all she got.

All the long paragraphs with the emojis and smiley faces? They came from her.

Got me thinking about my own texting pattern, maybe that youtube video on Texting Strategies on AlphaMaleStrategies was right after all.

Anyways, there you boys have it. Anytime you're in a texting pattern with a girl, think to yourself: "Does my pattern make me look masculine? Or like a SIMP".

Text like a Man!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Good post but I think for myself, this comes naturally when i know a girl is thirsty for me.. I mean, I'm not a texter anyways so my replies tend to be short, unless i messed up with a potential 10 then I might text a bit more to try to make it up
 

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Thought I'd share a story with yall.

Was at a strip club the other day, talking to this girl which I've seen a few times. She's pretty friendly and fun to talk to, so I bought her a few drinks and we were just hanging out. It was slow (I went in early evening on weekday) so she wasn't in a mindset to make $$$.

During the conversation, she tells me she had banged "The Game". For those that don't know, The Game is a rapper who was well known about a decade or so ago, was in G Unit with 50 Cent at one point and had a few hit singles. Not much about him since then, but probably still relevant in the Urban black / hip hop community. Whatever, I don't really care, but anyways, I wanted her to prove it. So, she whips out her Instagram and shows me her conversation with him.

I dont care who he is, or that she banged him. What I thought was interesting.... was his texting pattern. This man would keep his replies to a single line. No emojis, no smiley face girly sh1t, no "Hey You :), Good Morning". The occasional "Lol" was all she got.

All the long paragraphs with the emojis and smiley faces? They came from her.

Got me thinking about my own texting pattern, maybe that youtube video on Texting Strategies on AlphaMaleStrategies was right after all.

Anyways, there you boys have it. Anytime you're in a texting pattern with a girl, think to yourself: "Does my pattern make me look masculine? Or like a SIMP".

Text like a Man!
I noticed too. Its not texting like a man or a simp. The short response is from the less interested one. The long detailed texts are for the person opening up and over flowing. That's all it is.

If the man was pursuing the pattern would be reversed. He would do all these details in his text and her response short.
 

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Thought I'd share a story with yall.

Was at a strip club the other day, talking to this girl which I've seen a few times. She's pretty friendly and fun to talk to, so I bought her a few drinks and we were just hanging out. It was slow (I went in early evening on weekday) so she wasn't in a mindset to make $$$.

During the conversation, she tells me she had banged "The Game". For those that don't know, The Game is a rapper who was well known about a decade or so ago, was in G Unit with 50 Cent at one point and had a few hit singles. Not much about him since then, but probably still relevant in the Urban black / hip hop community. Whatever, I don't really care, but anyways, I wanted her to prove it. So, she whips out her Instagram and shows me her conversation with him.

I dont care who he is, or that she banged him. What I thought was interesting.... was his texting pattern. This man would keep his replies to a single line. No emojis, no smiley face girly sh1t, no "Hey You :), Good Morning". The occasional "Lol" was all she got.

All the long paragraphs with the emojis and smiley faces? They came from her.

Got me thinking about my own texting pattern, maybe that youtube video on Texting Strategies on AlphaMaleStrategies was right after all.

Anyways, there you boys have it. Anytime you're in a texting pattern with a girl, think to yourself: "Does my pattern make me look masculine? Or like a SIMP".

Text like a Man!
I text for results
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I dont care who he is, or that she banged him. What I thought was interesting.... was his texting pattern. This man would keep his replies to a single line. No emojis, no smiley face girly sh1t, no "Hey You :), Good Morning". The occasional "Lol" was all she got.
That's how it looks when you live in true abundance and truly don't care about entertaining her. Also, rappers tend to know the true nature of women better than other professions. Just listen to the lyrics lol
The Game was really good, i liked his music.
 

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I dont care who he is, or that she banged him. What I thought was interesting.... was his texting pattern. This man would keep his replies to a single line. No emojis, no smiley face girly sh1t, no "Hey You :), Good Morning". The occasional "Lol" was all she got.
That's not texting. I'm not saying it's a bad strategy, I'm just saying that's not texting. It's practically ignoring her. Which again, might work as a strategy, but it takes no skill to do that.
 

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That's not texting. I'm not saying it's a bad strategy, I'm just saying that's not texting. It's practically ignoring her.
does what he wants, hes the game. my mate has pretty good status, he sends women one word messages and they literally strike up a convo with him, its amazing to see
 

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That's not texting. I'm not saying it's a bad strategy, I'm just saying that's not texting. It's practically ignoring her. Which again, might work as a strategy, but it takes no skill to do that.
He's not "trying" to ignore her though. They are more into themselves than anyone here. Women probably talk around him and he didn't hear anything.
 

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does what he wants, hes the game. my mate has pretty good status, he sends women one word messages and they literally strike up a convo with him, its amazing to see
When you have good status, you don't need game.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do whatever the **** you want to do ...I like to mix it up. I'm also not a rapper who can get any women he wants with the snap of my fingers. With established plates, I'll use emojis, gifs, share articles, share songs, send pics...long texts, short texts. IDGAF as long it's congruent with the message I want to convey. Obviously, I do none of these things in excess, but I will say they do make the conversations more dynamic. That being said I also don't text frequently and when I do it tends to be things of substance. I also converse with professional women, Phd's , Drs , lawyers...not strippers so there's that. I'm a nerd so I enjoy language and I convey it in the way I communicate with my plates. Point being , do you if that style of texting aligns with your persona, cool, but ultimately do whatever you want. If the girl really likes you, the way you text( unless your weird/autistic) is not gonna detract from you getting in those guts.
 

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Do whatever the **** you want to do ...I like to mix it up. I'm also not a rapper who can get any women he wants with the snap of my fingers. With established plates, I'll use emojis, gifs, share articles, share songs, send pics...long texts, short texts. IDGAF as long it's congruent with the message I want to convey. Obviously, I do none of these things in excess, but I will say they do make the conversations more dynamic. That being said I also don't text frequently and when I do it tends to be things of substance. I also converse with professional women, Phd's , Drs , lawyers...not strippers so there's that. I'm a nerd so I enjoy language and I convey it in the way I communicate with my plates. Point being , do you if that style of texting aligns with your persona, cool, but ultimately do whatever you want. If the girl really likes you, the way you text( unless your weird/autistic) is not gonna detract from you getting in those guts.
Things of substance go with your character as well as the women your conversing with
 
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