"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Not cheating unless the girl has a baby from him. So techincally not cucked. That sex with that guy doesn't even count. Far as I know all my sex with girls doesn't count.

Also the baby has to survive and make it until its a least out of the womb to count.
I do like the personal responsibility that you put getting cucked on a man. If one lady cucks him, even his wife he can get another who doesn't.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why are girls hanging out in gay bars ? Why would straight men want to hang out in them is the prime question here…
Sounds like a ridiculous situation to me having to dodge other men hitting on you while you’re busy finding tail to chase that’s not a tranny…
this was popular 15-20 years ago back in the bigger city I grew up in.

I never did get a straight(pun intended) answer from my friends why they liked it so much except that they said people are happier and friendlier in gay bars.
I never went.
I preferred dance clubs that had more skilled dancers. Plus, they said there was no pool tables. I like to break up the dancing by playing pool once or twice an hour.
By their descriptions, it almost sounded like childish dancing at the gay bar.

But,
gay and Lgbt etc. people know EVERYONE.


It is an amazing underground network of contacts that can be mined for business, education, sales etc.
 

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this was popular 15-20 years ago back in the bigger city I grew up in.

I never did get a straight(pun intended) answer from my friends why they liked it so much except that they said people are happier and friendlier in gay bars.
I never went.
I preferred dance clubs that had more skilled dancers. Plus, they said there was no pool tables. I like to break up the dancing by playing pool once or twice an hour.
By their descriptions, it almost sounded like childish dancing at the gay bar.

But,
gay and Lgbt etc. people know EVERYONE.


It is an amazing underground network of contacts that can be mined for business, education, sales etc.
Very good... They have alot of influence these days.
 

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Very good... They have alot of influence these days.
in 2013, exfiance insisted I learn and accept that a whopping 50% of men in an all-male room I could be sitting in(like at work or in a spiritual meeting)are privately bisexual, bicurious or at least down for something on the downlow.
When one includes the various scenarios such as mmf and other scenarios where more than 1 man is participating in a private sex encounter......I finally believe him.

So the influence gets built.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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in 2013, exfiance insisted I learn and accept that a whopping 50% of men in an all-male room I could be sitting in(like at work or in a spiritual meeting)are privately bisexual, bicurious or at least down for something on the downlow.
When one includes the various scenarios such as mmf and other scenarios where more than 1 man is participating in a private sex encounter......I finally believe him.

So the influence gets built.
Never thought about all that. MMF is not always bi or gay, but most men wouldn't be comfortable in the setting. There are a bunch of bi and gay amongst us. DL brothers in some area's are close to 50%.
 

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Never thought about all that. MMF is not always bi or gay, but most men wouldn't be comfortable in the setting. There are a bunch of bi and gay amongst us. DL brothers in some area's are close to 50%.
yes, I wouldn't know for sure but I started picking up on little comments and jokes that probably wouldn't be uttered by completely straight men.

Sexuality is fluid and on a vast spectrum. I learned alot more on that aven forum.
Most importantly, learned how to accept everyone even better than I was previously, because I felt like I had an explanation and a breakdown for different types of attraction.

All this stuff is interesting/fascinating if you remain openminded to learning and understanding and accepting.
 
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