Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Where did you get that fake news from?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Let me address you quite directly. I do not live with my parents. Their meeting me and making contact is 100% their choice as well as all risks involved. I sleep like a baby.
Why do you feel there is a need to give an explanation to me?
America is now a 3rd world country with lipstick on.
I don't see me my father posting on this thread. You did. I replied. I didn't ask for your comment on my thread. So, why do you feel the need to lecture those here like you are their father with sensational dramatized statements?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
No. 1, if you don't want me to post in ur thread, then don't make a thread, this is a forum.
Replies are fine
Gaslighting?
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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
No, you don't. Anyone on this forum should know by now the mainstream thought line is not always correct.
fee.org
You mean to say, that the entire world who has implemented face masking and seen a near elimination of covid in their society is lying?
FEE is rated as leaning to the right political spectrum.Europe's Top Health Officials Say Masks Aren't Helpful in Beating COVID-19
Public health officials in Denmark, Holland, and beyond say they have no intention of recommending face coverings, saying the science does not support it. “Face masks in public places are not necessary, based on all the current evidence,” said Coen Berends, spokesman for the National Institute...
Nearly every state mandates wearing masks, yet the virus is still supposedly still here in the U.S.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Pot Kettle Black
Got anything to back that up? And if so, why is he one of the few (if not the only) sheriff in the country to be so paranoid?
Sheriff Woods, whose jurisdiction is about 80 miles north of Orlando (130km), also said visitors must remove their masks before entering the lobby of the station, linking his decision to recent protests against police brutality and racism.
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Well, no other sheriff in the country is quite that paranoid. Fear, fear, fear. Be afraid, ye government sheeple.Sheriff Woods, whose jurisdiction is about 80 miles north of Orlando (130km), also said visitors must remove their masks before entering the lobby of the station, linking his decision to recent protests against police brutality and racism.
"In light of the current events when it comes to the sentiment and/or hatred toward law enforcement in our country today, this is being done to ensure there is clear communication and for identification purposes of any individual walking into a lobby," he wrote in an email to employees.
Coronavirus: Florida sheriff bans deputies from wearing masks
The order also requires visitors to the sheriff's office to have their face uncovered.
Hard to argue with his justifications.
I think he's being proactive. Seems like a good sheriff.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.