You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Lol not sure about the other Indian guys...but to me it's about you guys not being specific combined with me not caring for women in my past whether how hot the experience was or how bad it was....if I'm not with them why should I care?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
LOL for real though man, share your stories, you'd inspire some brown brothers and it be a change up from skinnyguy's whinings.
Yes I have with both...I wish all of them were since 2016 because that's when I stopped porn/masturbate..and sex is 100x better now. The hottest paki girl was before that and my experience wasn't that great because I lasted long but got kicked out of her house by her dad. I had a cute Arab girl this this past summer I was more into her personality tho she is a 7 and medical school student.
Bro I saw that you said you were Muslim and considering you **** with middle easterners and desis, I’d assume you know a lot about Muslim chicks in general. I got a question: what percentage of them do you think are actually ‘pure’? Like say no experience with guys at all vs virgins but still messes around with dudes vs like your average chick vs straight hoe.
I've actually thought about this before. I think a lot of women in my community messed(messes)around with guys on the low even hijabis. I think a lot of women do regardless of what they put their image to be(and really I'm not judging them because who wants to be judged especially in your community? I have a close friend who knows I've asked women in and out of my community even spotted me and chat with him about it after...but very possibly doesn't know I'm not a virgin and if someone does think I'm not...I'll tell them I was married briefly and that'show I know about what I do know from what I tell you)
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Where do you live?
Atlanta right now.