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Gaming Indian girls, anyone had success there?

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I have a thing for Indian women but I notice that the ones who like me are Mindy Kaling looking, the really dark ones who could pass for black. Now looking around, those are also the main Indian women I see going interracial too and my two Indian friends do not seem to want them. I do not seem to see the ones who are more lighter skinned and Bollywood looking go interracial that much, is it due to how life is in that part of India? Now I also notice with Indian men from places where these men are from, they are a lot taller, bigger, and more macho so are these girls used to having alpha men around a lot?

One example is Sunny Leone who I knew married a white guy but then again, she is a pornstar. Most of the girls with this look I know seem to only go for Indian or Muslim men. Any experiences?
 

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Indian culture is very different from western culture, you should do a lot of reading into the subject if you're into Indian women, they will appreciate you making the effort and you'll avoid ****ing up.

My buddy's first wife was Indian and she wore a watch because it helped her remind her how light her skin can get in winter. Which is usually the opposite of white women who go to the beach to get as dark as possible.

My understanding - and someone can correct me if I'm wrong - is that the darker you are in India, the lower your SMV is. And not only that, the darker you are, the lower your CASTE is (generally speaking), and castes aren't supposed to mix.

This isn't a problem in western countries, but you have to operate on the premise that the mentality may still be there. My friend's ex I spoke about didn't really grow up in India, she was from Arizona, but her parents still raised her indian, she still was really insecure about her skin tone. She was beautiful, a cheating wh0re, but beautiful. The lighter skinned women in India get snapped up like cute blue eyed blondes do in western nations, and they go to bollywood because they're considered the most beautiful.

Intercultural relationships come with extra challenges. Even if she likes you, her parents may hate you for not being indian.
 

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I grew up around a good number of Indians and the ones from places like Punjab tend to be more on the alpha and macho end than Indian men from elsewhere. Due to history, there is somewhat of a distrust of whites.

What has amazed me about Indians and Arabs compared to other minorities is that there is less of this neediness to please whites, something I see all too often with Asian cultures. In other words, the kinds of Indian women you talk about are more like white women and Middle Eastern women in attitude.

They will go for guys who are white but they are not like Asian women or Latinas in the sense that they will go for any white guy. Most of the times when I have seen these types of Indian girls go interracial, the guy was a Chad. I have a couple of mixed race looking black friends dating Punjabi dimes, these guys are handsome, jacked, and cool as ****.

In some ways, I almost respect these women and wish our women (East Asian) were like this. A lot of these women have enough men available from their backgrounds and tend to be more objective when judging men, just like white women are. While a Chinese girl will take a white guy that is a 6 over an Asian guy that is an 8, I find that Arab and Indian girls are not that white worshiping.

In other words, be alpha and cool, do not expect your race to give you as much of a boost as it might with Asian girls and Latinas. Better yet, why not just go for Latinas? You have somewhat of the same look on the girl anyways and being white will give you a boost.
 

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I have a thing for Indian women but I notice that the ones who like me are Mindy Kaling looking, the really dark ones who could pass for black. Now looking around, those are also the main Indian women I see going interracial too and my two Indian friends do not seem to want them. I do not seem to see the ones who are more lighter skinned and Bollywood looking go interracial that much, is it due to how life is in that part of India? Now I also notice with Indian men from places where these men are from, they are a lot taller, bigger, and more macho so are these girls used to having alpha men around a lot?

One example is Sunny Leone who I knew married a white guy but then again, she is a pornstar. Most of the girls with this look I know seem to only go for Indian or Muslim men. Any experiences?
Women respond to alpha. If top shelf, women swallow.
 

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I have a thing for Indian women but I notice that the ones who like me are Mindy Kaling looking, the really dark ones who could pass for black. Now looking around, those are also the main Indian women I see going interracial too and my two Indian friends do not seem to want them. I do not seem to see the ones who are more lighter skinned and Bollywood looking go interracial that much, is it due to how life is in that part of India? Now I also notice with Indian men from places where these men are from, they are a lot taller, bigger, and more macho so are these girls used to having alpha men around a lot?

One example is Sunny Leone who I knew married a white guy but then again, she is a pornstar. Most of the girls with this look I know seem to only go for Indian or Muslim men. Any experiences?
My ex-wife was an Indian lady from Trinidad. We were married for a couple of months before it came crashing apart. Her ex-bf was white and gave her a daughter, and it appears he was very much involved into her life as he had joint-custody of the child and things just became toxic within that set-up. This was back in 2014. We dated a few months before we got married. Her family was toxic and wanted to have an white wedding with an extravaganza style reception and I could not afford this and explained I had financial issues going in.

If it wasn't for her family/friend influences that made her feel like I took advantage of her (i.e. why would I do that since I'm not out to trick women to marrying me for sex, we could have had that without getting married which is retarded) by tricking her to marry me knowing I was a financial trainwreck. You can guess where that marriage went....

My concept with Indian women is that when you marry one, you marry her whole family and they are into allot of social engagements. You also need to have allot of money since they have high expectations if they get involved with a foreigner or non-Indian. I don't feel that my ex-wife or her family was fair with me.
 

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Lol I'm indian. Message me what you want....I like cute Indian/Pakistan chicks but Arab chicks are even better looking (lebanese, Palestinnian,irani,etc). I go for women who are cute regardless of skin color....Ive had more experience with non-indian girls that Indian just cause I'm not exposed to them much unless community events here I go to and I'm not on social media, etc
 

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I'm going to most likely marry an indian/Pakistani/arab chick vs other race women just because my family prefers to keep in the culture even if she's the same religion(Muslim). That's how Indian/Pakistani people are. Not sure about Arab...if you didn't know Indian/Pakistani people (South Asian) are different from Arab/middle eastern . Different race actually most don't know I believe.
 
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Lol I'm indian. Message me what you want....I like cute Indian/Pakistan chicks but Arab chicks are even better looking (lebanese, Palestinnian,irani,etc). I go for women who are cute regardless of skin color....Ive had more experience with non-indian girls that Indian just cause I'm not exposed to them much unless community events here I go to and I'm not on social media, etc
Got some bad news homie, Arab and Middle Eastern women do not seem to like Indian men too much. Most I know either stay with their own men, sleep with black or Latin men (Armenian women LOVE black dudes lol), or go for a blond haired white guy on some occasion.
 

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Got some bad news homie, Arab and Middle Eastern women do not seem to like Indian men too much. Most I know either stay with their own men, sleep with black or Latin men (Armenian women LOVE black dudes lol), or go for a blond haired white guy on some occasion.
Lol yeah you're I think I heard that before. Some are really hot is my point not saying im specifically going for them.
What's your fascination with Desi(south asian) women and what's your race?
 

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I am around a lot of Indian women and they are hard to crack. I have yet to see one that appeared to be in a relationship with any other race the other Indian. If somebody has a magic formula on how to game Indian women, I will be your best friend.
 

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I've only met one Indian girl, but she was essentially British having grown up there. I didn't fvck her as she ghosted me. She first hinted at us instadating and spending the rest of the day together, but I was with friends and decided to leave with them.

She was a solid 8, not too dark skinned. Saw a picture of her with her possibly mixed race Indian friend on social media who was a legit 9.

And that concludes my Indian expertise. Fvck em' when and where you can.
 
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Lol yeah you're I think I heard that before. Some are really hot is my point not saying im specifically going for them.
What's your fascination with Desi(south asian) women and what's your race?
Why does it matter? Look bro, if you do not game your sistas then someone else will and they will get desperate. Nothing personal but I hate how Indian men ask these dumb questions. I mean based on your avi, you could be getting laid right now. I'd focus more on yourself and getting girls than asking me questions. You remind me too much of my Indian friends who did the same dumb cringe stuff and never got any.
 
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I am around a lot of Indian women and they are hard to crack. I have yet to see one that appeared to be in a relationship with any other race the other Indian. If somebody has a magic formula on how to game Indian women, I will be your best friend.
It's not that depressing. I've known some growing up in Atlanta (huge Indian pop) that dated white guys and a small number even black guys. I think the standard rules of being popular and handsome still apply but the one thing I will say is this, make Indian friends and make it genuine. Every white guy I know that dated a hot Indian girl had Indian guys as friends, often meeting her through the guys.

During my college days one of my wings was an Indian dude (born and raised in Johns Creek, popular rich kid) and he had access to hot girls who were Indian and white. One other acquaintance I had was some douchey guy from the east coast who disrespected him and tried to make a move on the girls. While the dude lifted and wasn't bad looking, the girls were kind of up in the air about him until they found out he said a few insensitive things to my friend.

Generally speaking (exceptions exist), Indian women are not like Asian women or Latinas, that's one thing I have found. If they go interracial, they do it because they are attracted to the guy. Talk down about their culture or treat their men like crap, they'll ditch you. On the other hand with Asian women you can be a white supremacist or a skinhead, they'll still ****.

You can get Indian girls who are hot without listening to anything that I have said but very likely, you'll be getting a mentally sick woman that no one wants and is riddled with issues.
 
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Why does it matter? Look bro, if you do not game your sistas then someone else will and they will get desperate. Nothing personal but I hate how Indian men ask these dumb questions. I mean based on your avi, you could be getting laid right now. I'd focus more on yourself and getting girls than asking me questions. You remind me too much of my Indian friends who did the same dumb cringe stuff and never got any.
It doesn't matter just asking because I don't posts on a specific race much. No need to get defensive I don't have to focus more on getting girls anymore than I already do so I'm asking you that question lol. I'll have that hot Desi chick there's quite a few out there ;)
 
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It doesn't matter just asking because I don't posts on a specific race much. No need to get defensive I don't have to focus more on getting girls anymore than I already do so I'm asking you that question lol. I'll have that hot Desi chick there's quite a few out there ;)
What kind of girls do you usually ****?
 
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