She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Lol not sure about the other Indian guys...but to me it's about you guys not being specific combined with me not caring for women in my past whether how hot the experience was or how bad it was....if I'm not with them why should I care?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
LOL for real though man, share your stories, you'd inspire some brown brothers and it be a change up from skinnyguy's whinings.
Yes I have with both...I wish all of them were since 2016 because that's when I stopped porn/masturbate..and sex is 100x better now. The hottest paki girl was before that and my experience wasn't that great because I lasted long but got kicked out of her house by her dad. I had a cute Arab girl this this past summer I was more into her personality tho she is a 7 and medical school student.
Bro I saw that you said you were Muslim and considering you **** with middle easterners and desis, I’d assume you know a lot about Muslim chicks in general. I got a question: what percentage of them do you think are actually ‘pure’? Like say no experience with guys at all vs virgins but still messes around with dudes vs like your average chick vs straight hoe.
I've actually thought about this before. I think a lot of women in my community messed(messes)around with guys on the low even hijabis. I think a lot of women do regardless of what they put their image to be(and really I'm not judging them because who wants to be judged especially in your community? I have a close friend who knows I've asked women in and out of my community even spotted me and chat with him about it after...but very possibly doesn't know I'm not a virgin and if someone does think I'm not...I'll tell them I was married briefly and that'show I know about what I do know from what I tell you)
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Where do you live?
Atlanta right now.