i dont understand why so many peeople make children

[sosousage]

id hate to have a kid. literally give up on life and be slave to your family for rest of life.


im sure many men share my mindset yet i see couples with kids everywhere


you tink they all from broken condoms? LMAO

 

[Lynx nkaf]

It's called baby rabies.

It's as if they got bit by something rabid.

 

[Vantagepoint34]

id hate to have a kid. literally give up on life and be slave to your family for rest of life.


im sure many men share my mindset yet i see couples with kids everywhere


you tink they all from broken condoms? LMAO

You don't have to be a slave to them. Just have them. Be technical don't end up on a list of child support. That way you can look back at life and remember it wasn't a complete waste.

 

[zekko]

Because they can't keep it in their pants.

 

[sosousage]

Because they can't keep it in their pants.

thats why its good to be incel

 

[cola]

You live your life, hopefully become successful and acquire a lot of knowledge along the way. You want naturally to pass that knowledge on.

What many people on this forum don’t understand is life can be great. Tell me what better feeling there is than to start with nothing, no help from parents, no inheritance, straight from the bottom and make something of yourself, to be CEO or even owner of a successful business.

To be built like a pre pubescent boy and through hard work craft an amazing physique.

From biking to work fresh out of college on a ramen diet, then getting your first Camaro SS convertible and cruising on the highway on your way to your condo with a sexy blonde who hopefully has her head in your lap.

it’s the journey man, and you want to share what you learned on your journey with someone(kids) and hopefully it helps them on their journey and they pass down to their kids what they learned from grandpop..

atleast that’s how I think the kids thing is suppose to work..

Listen, cut the melancholy “woe is me” bs and understand what a gift life is. You are in a movie with no script and you can play any role you want. You’re an incel? You chose that role. You don’t like the direction of the film rewrite the script. And I say that with nothing but good intentions for whoever’s reading this and needed to see these words.

 

[Lynx nkaf]

Thanks cola, cool you're happy with kids; love rags-to-riches stories. Like the characters in Ayn Rand's books.

 

[lamath]

Kids bring you something more in life, not sure how to explain.

To me it feels a bit like the top part of the Maslow pyramid, caring for more than my own gratification.
Only downside is it can make your life real hard if you dont chose your partner well.
I think that most men that run away from their child dont really run away from them but from their mother they had to misfortune of getting pregnant

 

[Who Dares Win]

I would gladly have kids if they werent a soft spot in a condition where as a productive man you are alone against the world.

Cant really have kids when society, government and your own wife sooner or later want a piece of you.

 

[Poonani Maker]

Until like the 80s onward only 20% of men ever made kids. Now it's flipped where 80% have kids. In the distant past hardly anyone reproduced in the whole scheme of things/population.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Until like the 80s onward only 20% of men ever made kids. Now it's flipped where 80% have kids. In the distant past hardly anyone reproduced in the whole scheme of things/population.

So you mean that those born in the 60s are all brothers and sisters?

 

[Reyaj]

Someone once told me there's nothing more rewarding in life than raising a child. I hope I find this out one day.

 

[Epicwinguy]

No, most dudes would like to have kids at some point in time. More dudes than women actually. You’re just an idiot. Someone ban this mother****ing retard already, ffs...

This question makes sense. Kids are annoying.

 

[sosousage]

This question makes sense. Kids are annoying.

yeah dont discuss with that autist. his primitive brain cannot understand other people have different views and opinions than him

 

[RickTheToad]

A child will give you unconditional love when a b*tch won’t.

A child will ask if you’re ok and give you a hug when the world doesn’t give a sh*t.

A child will say exactly what they mean without filters while everyone else is feeding you fake bvll**** and deception.

A child will think you’re amazing at a time many may think you’re not good enough.

A child will laugh with you while others will laugh at you.

A child will be your unconditional ally in this crazy fvcking world. They provide you with something that you KNOW no other human being on the planet can match, live up to or deliver on.

It’s not all bad.

You can even say it’s everything an “incel” wants deep down inside if they had the balls to admit it.

Guess your kid isn't an adult yet. Surprised that @Amante Silvestre is wearing rost colored glasses. Perhaps the engagement is softening you up a bit?

 

[corrector]

A child will give you unconditional love when a b*tch won’t.

A child will ask if you’re ok and give you a hug when the world doesn’t give a sh*t.

A child will look up to you straight in the eyes while most people will look down on you behind your back.

A child will say exactly what they mean without filters while everyone else is feeding you fake bvll**** and deception.

A child will think you’re amazing at a time many may think you’re not good enough.

A child will laugh with you while others will laugh at you.

A child can be inspired by you while the everyone else is waiting to be impressed.

A child will be your unconditional ally in this crazy fvcking world. They provide you with something that you KNOW no other human being on the planet can match, live up to or deliver on.

It’s not all bad.

You can even say it’s everything an “incel” wants deep down inside if they had the balls to admit it.

A child needs toilet training and diaper changing. When I was a kid, I peed in the carpet in the living room and thought nothing of it and shat in the hall-way, again thinking nothing of it. I can even remember doing these things. A child wants their mother to pick them up and carry them everywhere and wants the light on all over the house because they think there is a monster hiding in the closet.

You are talking about young children in your examples, not tweens and older when they are their own and not as much under your influence.

 

[lamath]

Guess your kid isn't an adult yet. Surprised that @Amante Silvestre is wearing rost colored glasses. Perhaps the engagement is softening you up a bit?

I dont think his views are related to his relation to a women.

When i was younger i never wanted kids and i remember friend with kids telling me you dont know what you are missing until you have them.
Those words stuck with me even if i was not believing it,until the birth of my first kids. Now i know otherwise even if i cant really rationally explain it.

I dont think ppl without kids who have not experience it can understand it and imo its normal.
Tbh having a pet is in no way similar then having kids and women doing this are just trying to filled a void that cant be filled

Kids can be a pain but like women they are a reflection of how you are with them, with a good upbringing they will excel in life.
Like its hard af to raise them right, but its worth the trouble.

 

[lamath]

A child needs toilet training and diaper changing. When I was a kid, I peed in the carpet in the living room and thought nothing of it and shat in the hall-way, again thinking nothing of it. I can even remember doing these things. A child wants their mother to pick them up and carry them everywhere and wants the light on all over the house because they think there is a monster hiding in the closet.

You are talking about young children in your examples, not tweens and older when they are their own and not as much under your influence.

Imo its all about how you raised them in the earlier years of their life, after 8-10 y not sure our influence can do much.

 

[corrector]

If you have kids and you are broke and the relationship goes south then you can go to jail for child support payments or lose the privilege to drive, and will be forced to take any job, even if it doesn't even support your own living expenses.

My folks were poor when they had me, but dad started making more money after I was born. Sometimes luck changes when a child is born too. But you can't be really broke and unemployed, or are working poor and living from paycheck to paycheck and jugging 2-4 part-time, or contract jobs with low-pay and no benefits, and start having children. There is a real risk of jail-time if you do that. Who wants to go to jail on child support payments?

 

[corrector]

Imo its all about how you raised them in the earlier years of their life, after 8-10 y not sure our influence can do much.

True, but the left-wing biased education system can also indoctrinate them with values contrary to your own. Unless you home school your children or taking them to a private Christian school, their minds will be too polluted by the garbage that's around. The internet is also a terrible influence. It's not the same control as before and you need to have money to avoid the public system.

I live in Ontario, and unless I have a solid backing where I can afford a private school, it will be a sad story to have kids because the school curriculum is just toxic.

Further more, I feel I have no real accountability without any kids. I can watch anything I want or do anything I want without that as a consideration because I have to set an example. When nobody cares about what you are doing it can be liberating in that way. You have to be perfect once kids are involved and have a natural/biological reason to do. Anybody can have kids, and even an incel can end up having a kid since even some incels could get laid once in a blue moon (i.e. as I have) and maybe the condom fell off or you kept it in too long when you planned to take it out sooner because you were lost in passion, etc.... but not everyone is cut out to be a father.

Some guys might change within the first 6 months or 1 year after birth, but they go back to their old ways. I know my own father did. Unless there is a change of heart it will feel like a type of prison and you are no longer yourself. In a sense, if I have a weakness looking at porn I'd rather that be resolved if push comes to shove, than have kids.