Girls night out

[Vantagepoint34]

Do any of you know how to conduct yourself in a girls night out situation. Usually girls I meet keep girls night out a secret and I can pick up hint. All of a sudden a girl I know she brings me a gift. Any girl that drops a gift too early I know has or has been having girls night out. Of course she's probably excluding you out. But in convo. you can usually get the convo out. As long as you have good intel I'm sure you Dj's know how to figure out if a girl you know is doing stuff behind your back. If any of you have examples of your girl holding out on a saturday night clubbing lmk how you diffuse situation.

 

[oldmanofthesea]

You can't control a girl. If she wants to go clubbing or go to girl's night out then that's what she's going to do. It's not always a bad thing. Girls like to dance and hang out with their friends. Of course she's probably going to get hit on but she can get hit on anywhere, at work or the grocery store.

I never try to pry into a girl to "get it out of her." That is insecure and needy and she instantly detects it. A lot of times girls will drop little hints in order to SEE if you will pry. It's a test of your confidence and neediness. One of my favorite things is not taking that bait and watching her hamster wheel spin faster. My attitude is: go do whatever you want, I don't care, because I'm going to do the same. I know I don't have much competition out there and if she finds someone she thinks is better, best of luck to her. I have other options and even if I didn't at that moment in time, I have a satisfying life.

Instead of worrying and wondering what she is or isn't doing, she should be worrying and wondering what you are or aren't doing. If you didn't establish that dynamic from the get-go, that's on you.

 

[Prettyboy Dee]

Lol who gives a sh!t?

Why do you even care? What someone does behind my back I could care less, outta site, outta mind.

I'm too busy doing my own thing to even care what my girl does.

Men who worry about this have no life and there obviously the lower status one in the relationships.

I dont give a damn about a girls night out because I'm not a girl, I dont think about it, dont worry about it, dont care about it, its so far outside of my reality I couldn't fathom the thought of actually sitting and wondering what girls do in there nights out lol.

Men have seriously become the women in today's time and unfortunately it only gets worse from here.

 

[Vantagepoint34]

Lol who gives a sh!t?

Why do you even care? What someone does behind my back I could care less, outta site, outta mind.

I'm too busy doing my own thing to even care what my girl does.

Men who worry about this have no life and there obviously the lower status one in the relationships.

I dont give a damn about a girls night out because I'm not a girl, I dont think about it, dont worry about it, dont care about it, its so far outside of my reality I couldn't fathom the thought of actually sitting and wondering what girls do in there nights out lol.

Men have seriously become the women in today's time and unfortunately it only gets worse from here.

I mean you're right lol But you have to agree if it affect interest level and overall if you're still with a girl or not. Then it matters. Especially if she's suggesting a trip to colorado. Big red flags for me. In my experience a big trip ultimately leads to the end of a relationship. Knowing interest level and changing male control ultimately has to affect something in relationship. You have to agree with me running "text game" get's you nowhere with a woman.

 

[Prettyboy Dee]

I mean you're right lol But you have to agree if it affect interest level and overall if you're still with a girl or not. Then it matters. Especially if she's suggesting a trip to colorado. Big red flags for me. In my experience a big trip ultimately leads to the end of a relationship. Knowing interest level and changing male control ultimately has to affect something in relationship. You have to agree with me running "text game" get's you nowhere with a woman.

Theres no such thing as "text game" but interest level trumps all, if shes interested it doesn't matter if you text or not, what's important is making a move and moving things forward.

If your girl wants a trip without you why does that bother you? Girls dont like guys who try to pry and be involved in there affairs, I have sisters so trust me I know, it makes you look lame, you should have things going on in your own life.

 

[Vantagepoint34]

Theres no such thing as "text game" but interest level trumps all, if shes interested it doesn't matter if you text or not, what's important is making a move and moving things forward.

If your girl wants a trip without you why does that bother you? Girls dont like guys who try to pry and be involved in there affairs, I have sisters so trust me I know, it makes you look lame, you should have things going on in your own life.

I recently met a girl that spent her entire life between Georgia and Florida. For the most part things are alright. I have a trip to France coming in next couple of month. My vacations are planned out. Had my kids already. Only thing from different baby mommas. All of them loved me at one point or another. Have had too much if that's possible Haha.

 

[Dash Riprock]

Do any of you know how to conduct yourself in a girls night out situation. Usually girls I meet keep girls night out a secret and I can pick up hint. All of a sudden a girl I know she brings me a gift. Any girl that drops a gift too early I know has or has been having girls night out. Of course she's probably excluding you out. But in convo. you can usually get the convo out. As long as you have good intel I'm sure you Dj's know how to figure out if a girl you know is doing stuff behind your back. If any of you have examples of your girl holding out on a saturday night clubbing lmk how you diffuse situation.

You're going to get dumped, I guarantee it.

Not because of girls night out, but because of your insecurity, jealousy, and neediness.

You'd better up your game, cowboy. Women want confident MEN, not wimpy, suspicious boys with no life outside of dating.

 

[Vantagepoint34]

You're going to get dumped, I guarantee it.

Not because of girls night out, but because of your insecurity, jealousy, and neediness.

You'd better up your game, cowboy. Women want confident MEN, not wimpy, suspicious boys with no life outside of dating.

Not much else to say. I was a soldier. Not a career soldier. But I did iraqi freedom. There's only slubs in army now that want to take on millenials over storm area 51

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Who cares. She has a life away from you. Encourage it. You don't need to control her. Be a man. Stop worrying about her banging other dudes. Start working on becoming a better man so that never enters her mind.

 

[cola]

You're going to get dumped, I guarantee it.

Not because of girls night out, but because of your insecurity, jealousy, and neediness.

You'd better up your game, cowboy. Women want confident MEN, not wimpy, suspicious boys with no life outside of dating.

This. X1000. Grow up. She is entitled to go out with friends.

 

[RangerMIke]

Let her window shop... the more she does this, the better you look compared to what else is out there. The only time you need to worry about 'girls night out' is if YOU think there are better men out there.

If you think there are better men: then you need to work on yourself. If a chick dumps you for another dude... no sweat just move onto the next one.

 

[cola]

Captain save a Hoe mentality. THIS will not end well for you bro. Trust me you go right on ahead. If she dont detest you before GNO she will find it just before dude shoves his shaft in her ***** in the parking lot.
Do yourself a favor and be the guy in the parking lot before he does. Dumb azz

Dude, if your girls going to cheat she is going to cheat. GNO or not. You can’t hold her hostage and forbid her from going places.

 

[cola]

Cola as soon as she "wants away from you" aka space" its over brother. That "space" should have been there from the beginning.

Bruh, you trippin’. You can’t hold your b*tch hostage in the house. That’s not cool. If you can’t trust her to go get drinks with her girlfriends you shouldn’t be with her or you need to work on you.

 

[cola]

Cola as soon as she "wants away from you" aka space" its over brother. That "space" should have been there from the beginning.

Girls night out isn’t space. I’ve had girlfriends go to girls night out come over 2 am drunk and let me put it in any hole I want.

 

[cola]

Did i say this? No one said control. Im tellin you if your girl is pulling this one you.
A. Your with wrong girl. Or plate if you hVe an issue with it. (If not your sharing dik)
B. You lost frame already.
21-26 year old will exercise this because they are still shopping.

You confuse control with frame because your controlling and confuse it with being complacent.
If she feared you nexting her at the slightest bad behavior she would have you at the club. Your trippin

Bro, her going out with her girlfriends isn’t bad behavior.. it’s normal socializing. Do you not go out with the guys for drinks or poker or to play a sport?

 

[In2theGame]

Do any of you know how to conduct yourself in a girls night out situation. Usually girls I meet keep girls night out a secret and I can pick up hint. All of a sudden a girl I know she brings me a gift. Any girl that drops a gift too early I know has or has been having girls night out. Of course she's probably excluding you out. But in convo. you can usually get the convo out. As long as you have good intel I'm sure you Dj's know how to figure out if a girl you know is doing stuff behind your back. If any of you have examples of your girl holding out on a saturday night clubbing lmk how you diffuse situation.

1. Why do you think she's keeping it a "secret"?
2. Is this your official girlfriend or just a girl you're casually seeing?

 

[Vantagepoint34]

Bro, her going out with her girlfriends isn’t bad behavior.. it’s normal socializing. Do you not go out with the guys for drinks or poker or to play a sport?

Bro tbh now I'll solo at the casino. At least for me casino worked out in one of my past post. Girls,booze, money. In the end I didn't see the girls again. Not that it didn't happen Just wasn't good enough for the girls nowadays. Even if we walked away from casino and won. Girls nowadays I'll be checking up on one of them. Hopefully ancestry will be a good place to reconnect. I've been a very absent Dad. Doesn't help her homestate flooded and corona outbreak. Lol so fingers crossed she's not in ditch somewhere...

 

[Vantagepoint34]

1. Why do you think she's keeping it a "secret"?
2. Is this your official girlfriend or just a girl you're casually seeing?

This is my main baby momma. Had my kids with her. She's super cool. Secretary in the army. She's up to date though likes sex and the city. We talk from time to time. Guys what I'm trying to bring up is situation where she gifts you a pair of shorts. I mean she didn't just buy them she could of thrown a mini party with her girlfriends before she bothered to get you something...

 

[In2theGame]

This is my main baby momma. Had my kids with her. She's super cool. Secretary in the army. She's up to date though likes sex and the city. We talk from time to time. Guys what I'm trying to bring up is situation where she gifts you a pair of shorts. I mean she didn't just buy them she could of thrown a mini party with her girlfriends before she bothered to get you something...

I don't understand. Is this your main official Woman? & why do you think she's keeping things a secret?

 

[cola]

That's a good point. Women are social creatures by nature. Most pretty women have 10 times the vibrant social life as a typical man. And this is a good thing. I've met so many women from plates I've dated just by showing up to parties and social gatherings with the plate. It's like you date 1 woman and you end u meeting 15 more.

In fact, one of the best ways to infiltrate social circles and increasing your social sphere is dating women who have vibrant social lives.

A woman's social life keeps her sane. And it has nothing to do with you. Guys who take it personal are coming from a fear based mindset.

To try to control a woman's social life is like a woman trying to limit the amount of times you can go to the gym because she's afraid you will cheat on her with girls from the gym.

Lol.

Also she is suppose to always “compete for your time” but when you aren’t available she is suppose to sit in the house like a “good little girl” and not go hang with her friends? That’s not game that’s being a controlling bully.