"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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HB 7 chick I chatted with at the market today.

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just make sure, for your own safety, that she doesn't have some crazy boyfriend that's part of the MS-13 who might take it as disrespect if you mess with his girl.
 

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I haven't seen her this weekend so it's likely she either didn't set up or went to another area. The market is huge. She might have went to an busier aisle.

I did have another cougar reply to me today on match! I used that cougar comment again and they seem to like that. She's 49 though.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well I conceal carry!
I doubt you'd pull the trigger. You won't even commit to getting stronger, you wouldn't commit to a murder.

And you're so little, you probably can't handle the recoil of any gun past the size of a 22
 

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I doubt you'd pull the trigger. You won't even commit to getting stronger, you wouldn't commit to a murder.

And you're so little, you probably can't handle the recoil of any gun past the size of a 22
I've shot SW 500 before, 357, 44, Own AR15s, .45s, 9mm.
 

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I've shot SW 500 before, 357, 44, Own AR15s, .45s, 9mm.
Shooting one and being able to handle it are two different things. You're too little for those guns lol. It's cute that you own them though
 

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So any suggestions how to chat her up since she doesn't live here. Even if I can get a pump and dump.
You need to start by talking respectfully about women, show class, even if you feel something else in private, when in public show respect that she trusted you, don't insult her for it.

2ndly, why don't you ask her for her number and set up a date if you like her. If she says no that's then you can come back and try again if you like her.

Glad you are making attempts, it will give you strength in online. Remember the rule, nothing online if you are in a public place with people before you do at least one approach.
 
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