"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HB 7 chick I chatted with at the market today.

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just make sure, for your own safety, that she doesn't have some crazy boyfriend that's part of the MS-13 who might take it as disrespect if you mess with his girl.
 

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I haven't seen her this weekend so it's likely she either didn't set up or went to another area. The market is huge. She might have went to an busier aisle.

I did have another cougar reply to me today on match! I used that cougar comment again and they seem to like that. She's 49 though.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well I conceal carry!
I doubt you'd pull the trigger. You won't even commit to getting stronger, you wouldn't commit to a murder.

And you're so little, you probably can't handle the recoil of any gun past the size of a 22
 

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I doubt you'd pull the trigger. You won't even commit to getting stronger, you wouldn't commit to a murder.

And you're so little, you probably can't handle the recoil of any gun past the size of a 22
I've shot SW 500 before, 357, 44, Own AR15s, .45s, 9mm.
 

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I've shot SW 500 before, 357, 44, Own AR15s, .45s, 9mm.
Shooting one and being able to handle it are two different things. You're too little for those guns lol. It's cute that you own them though
 

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So any suggestions how to chat her up since she doesn't live here. Even if I can get a pump and dump.
You need to start by talking respectfully about women, show class, even if you feel something else in private, when in public show respect that she trusted you, don't insult her for it.

2ndly, why don't you ask her for her number and set up a date if you like her. If she says no that's then you can come back and try again if you like her.

Glad you are making attempts, it will give you strength in online. Remember the rule, nothing online if you are in a public place with people before you do at least one approach.
 
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