No contact, she reached out

[dude99]

Why is she so hellbent on keeping a relationship with your son?

To use it to keep him an orbiter. She knows it is easy peasy validation

 

[dude99]

This would be my reply to anything and everything she sent me:

(Absolutely nothing)

This. ^^

 

[Glassguy]

7 months together, kids involved. Met my whole family, working together, she was my boss. 6x a week together. Felt like a realy family.

WRONG ANSWER!

What is she CURRENTLY DOING TO MEET YOUR NEEDS?

 

[RicBoy]

I know why she acted the way she did.
We spent way too much time together, 6 months in and I was at her place 6 days a week with her cooking, cleaning, I didn't participate in the household. Then I got a job one month before she left me, at her company, she was my supervisor. Things got worse. More time together, discussing work in the phone during day, her washing my working clothes daily, cooking me launch to take to work. Because lm living with a roomate, she never came to my place, so our relationship was all around her house, her life. She got fed up, I saw her pulling back, and I started to act needy... Smothered her..

 

[MrWood]

agree with @dude99 mostly

you could try to friend-zone her hard and simply start telling her about others girls/dates etc
ask her opinion and stuff, like a FRIEND

considering her reaction to the sleep-over... this will feed her hamster HARD and you might WIN.
choose some opportune time, invite HER to a sleep-over (use the kids as excuse)

cant hurt

 

[RicBoy]

agree with @dude99 mostly

you could try to friend-zone her hard and simply start telling her about others girls/dates etc
ask her opinion and stuff, like a FRIEND

considering her reaction to the sleep-over... this will feed her hamster HARD and you might WIN.
choose some opportune time, invite HER to a sleep-over (use the kids as excuse)

cant hurt

I think I'm past this point. Too much chasing, begging, any attempts, invitations on my part will be declined and put me in a weak position. I think I'm gonna avoid her for now at the kids exchange. Create some mystery and not show up, cos she thinks I'm here waiting for this opportunity to see her.

After she takes the kid now or in the future she could easily ask to do to soenthing with her and the kids. If she wanted. But that won't happen until she believes I'm moved on and her guard will be down

 

[Glassguy]

agree with @dude99 mostly

you could try to friend-zone her hard and simply start telling her about others girls/dates etc
ask her opinion and stuff, like a FRIEND

considering her reaction to the sleep-over... this will feed her hamster HARD and you might WIN.
choose some opportune time, invite HER to a sleep-over (use the kids as excuse)

cant hurt

Even if he does this and it works.......we all know this dude is going to repeat his beta behavior because he is 100% beta. Hell he already reverted back to acting how he did that got him dumped in the first place. It would be over in days because he would act the exact same way.

Sorry but I could probably pull this off but he cant. I would never try this with a woman because once its over I am smart enough to go out and find 2 or 3 more chicks than to sift through the garbage can trying to make a failed relationship work.....regardless of why it failed.

 

[RicBoy]

Even if he does this and it works.......we all know this dude is going to repeat his beta behavior because he is 100% beta. Hell he already reverted back to acting how he did that got him dumped in the first place. It would be over in days because he would act the exact same way.

Sorry but I could probably pull this off but he cant. I would never try this with a woman because once its over I am smart enough to go out and find 2 or 3 more chicks than to sift through the garbage can trying to make a failed relationship work.....regardless of why it failed.

Nah man, I learnt with my mistakes, not falling for it a 3rd time. She breadcrumbed me with a text and said no to meet up to see my reaction. I failed. She even called to show she was jealous and other crap... Not falling for it again.

 

[RicBoy]

She will be back man to test again. Come on now, this girl blocked me everywhere. Said would call police and still reached out. She is not scared to approach. It's not a few msgs that closed the case. If she truly wanted to close this for good she wouldn't want my kid around.

 

[Glassguy]

She will be back man to test again. Come on now, this girl blocked me everywhere. Said would call police and still reached out. She is not scared to approach. It's not a few msgs that closed the case. If she truly wanted to close this for good she wouldn't want my kid around.

Yeah she seems like a diamond in the rough. I wish we could all be lucky and find someone as elegant and feminine as her with all that interest she has in you.

Step up your text game- send her texts every hour. If she doesnt respond, ask her why. Push hard- show her how much you care and that you still love her and will do anything to be with her. How can she possibly refuse?

You're right. Calling the police was just a test. I love dealing with women who constantly shyte test me. I just come back with giving her even more attention and keep pushing those executive borders.

Wake TF up dude- If she really wanted to be with you she would be making this easy. WTF is wrong with you?

Jesus I feel sorry for your kids to have to watch their dad act like a total chump over a piece of @ss.

 

[RicBoy]

Yeah it's probably done. I still want to handle myself well from now on in my interactions with her about the kids. I became too needy. When I met her I was the bad boy. Im bald, full of tats. I saw her in the bar, she was in out group of friends. I went up to her and said just this "hi, I would like to fk u tonight, wanna come to my place." she said no. I said OK it's your loss. And I left. 2 days later she found me in Facebook and sent me a friend request. I sent her 2 or 3 texts. Asked her for a drink near her place, she said she was sick in bed all Weekend, I said cool ill make u tea and massage all weekend. She was like omg ok come Over. .. We had our first date at her place. She dropped a fwb she had immediately to be with me. Those were the days... Lolololol

I can't believe how I went from day 1 to now only in 7 months.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Well I will have another shot..she will reach out in 2 weeks when my son is here. I can play it right now.

No bro. You have no more shots. Its over. She sees you are still the same person she left. Move on with your life she already has.

 

[RicBoy]

No bro. You have no more shots. Its over. She sees you are still the same person she left. Move on with your life she already has.

Yeah it's probably over. If I'm lucky I can fk her. But probably not even that.

 

[Glassguy]

Yeah it's probably done. I still want to handle myself well from now on in my interactions with her about the kids. I became too needy. When I met her I was the bad boy. Im bald, full of tats. I saw her in the bar, she was in out group of friends. I went up to her and said just this "hi, I would like to fk u tonight, wanna come to my place." she said no. I said OK it's your loss. And I left. 2 days later she found me in Facebook and sent me a friend request. I sent her 2 or 3 texts. Asked her for a drink near her place, she said she was sick in bed all Weekend, I said cool ill make u tea and massage all weekend. She was like omg ok come Over. .. We had our first date at her place. She dropped a fwb she had immediately to be with me. Those were the days... Lolololol

I can't believe how I went from day 1 to now only in 7 months.

None of that happened. Stop trolling.

 

[RicBoy]

None of that happened. Stop trolling.

LOL I swear on my son bro

Sad how needy I became tho. Fell in love and became a little bixh

 

[RicBoy]

Anyways man, if I allow the kid to go over. Just keep text shorts about the kid and not initiate, and no more coffee invitations? That's about it?

 

[RicBoy]

No one answered my question. During the kid exchange should I be present or not? Example if I drive him to her place should I stay in the car or go to her doorstep.? Or if she comes to pick him up, should I bring him downstairs or just send my kid alone? Or I can say I'm at work.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

No one answered my question. During the kid exchange should I be present or not? Example if I drive him to her place should I stay in the car or go to her doorstep.? Or if she comes to pick him up, should I bring him downstairs or just send my kid alone? Or I can say I'm at work.

Why are you even agreeing to any of this? Is that his sister?

 

[derby1]

7 months together, kids involved. Met my whole family, working together, she was my boss. 6x a week together. Felt like a realy family.

female styled chat from 1990s, ^^

 

[RicBoy]

Why are you even agreeing to any of this? Is that his sister?

They are close friends. They play games online and are video calling at same time hours a day om the weekends.