I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Not really. I gave up years ago and entered into a LTR with a far from perfect but really lovable girl.Have any of you older guys found the fountain of youth???
This is simply not true. You think your 60 year old self will perform at the same level as your 30 year old self with identical fitness regiments?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Depends on what you mean by older. But yes. It’s a difficult mental game at first but the end is to hard a physical goal.Have any of you older guys found the fountain of youth???
I started noticing some things when I was 36 - some GERD, and weight didn't just fall off of me automatically as it previously did. All I can say is wait until you're my age, 59 lol. I have a lot of joint problems that challenge me. They say swimming is the best exercise, by the way. Low impact and works the entire body.I'm 38 years old and for the first time in my life, really the past 3-4 years or so, I'm starting to experience age.
Not only that, but every body is different. I have joint problems, but a lot of people are dead at my age, and some have debilitating diseases. Some people smoke all their life and live to 100, while others exercise every day, eat right, and drop dead at 45.You think your 60 year old self will perform at the same level as your 30 year old self with identical fitness regiments?
For sure. Have you ever tried cycling? If so have you found it tougher on the joints than swimming?I started noticing some things when I was 36 - some GERD, and weight didn't just fall off of me automatically as it previously did. All I can say is wait until you're my age, 59 lol. I have a lot of joint problems that challenge me. They say swimming is the best exercise, by the way. Low impact and works the entire body.
Not only that, but every body is different. I have joint problems, but a lot of people are dead at my age, and some have debilitating diseases. Some people smoke all their life and live to 100, while others exercise every day, eat right, and drop dead at 45.
I don't swim, although I recognize its value as an exercise. I don't think cycling is hard on the joints, but I've never thought it was that satisfying because it's not really a total body exercise. I'll do it to burn calories though or for some cardio.For sure. Have you ever tried cycling? If so have you found it tougher on the joints than swimming?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I'm a hockey player. When I 'retire' from hockey (likely in my mid 40s) I want to try masters cycling. I've always been an awful swimmer thoughI don't swim, although I recognize its value as an exercise. I don't think cycling is hard on the joints, but I've never thought it was that satisfying because it's not really a total body exercise. I'll do it to burn calories though or for some cardio.
In this day and age, its not difficult for a 60 year old to be in better shape than the average 30 year old. Look at the obesity crisis. Ok you wont be in better shape than when you were younger if you have always been in peak shape but thats not the point. You can either tell yourself that its over and not bother, or you can tell yourself that age is just a number, and do something about your health and fitness and increase your sense of self, well being and longevity. I guess thats my point.This is simply not true. You think your 60 year old self will perform at the same level as your 30 year old self with identical fitness regiments?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I used bands when I was trying to rehab some rotator cuff issues. They're no substitute for weights but they aren't as jarring to the tendons. Might be something useful for the OP to consider.switch to using cables and bands and focus on smooth controlled movements
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.