"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anyone here actually find chubby girls attractive?

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I think these Tyrones (i.e., the term for "black Chad") have determined that differential of white women to black women is positive enough to dig down low enough for a white woman to accept a black man. As for going the other way, it's probably available to me at the local fried chicken joint where the sisters seem to always be flirting with me. :rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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love them
I don't like girls who look like they have anorexia
but what do you mean by chubby? a few extra pounds is a must. But like 300 pounds?ew ew ew
 
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Not personally, no.

Although I did get a BJ once from a chubby 25 yo, it was, to this day, the best BJ I ever had.

I refused to fcuk her though.
 

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Kind of a shallow question I know but I'm bored and I was wondering ... You see black chads with fat white women all the time. Are they actually attracted to the fat?

Anyone here actually prefer chubby women?
Thin chicks don’t work for me. No Boner factor. I like em a little thick.

I like the big boobs and the big azz.

-Augustus-
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Not like it matters but are you black?
Nope, 62 year old white dude.

Back in the 60s and 70s, the women in magazines (there was no internet) were more voluptuous and natural, no cosmetic augmentation or alteration.

Also, the first girls I banged in the 70s had big natural boobs (one was black), and were curvy, so I think those images and experiences influenced my perception of what made a woman sexually attractive.

-Augustus-
 

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good company but keep it on the low key, other women will disqualify you, "sexy" fat birds usually have armys of friends almost like shes a queen..............................its because her mates find her no threat whatsoever
 

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Kind of a shallow question I know but I'm bored and I was wondering ... You see black chads with fat white women all the time. Are they actually attracted to the fat?

Anyone here actually prefer chubby women?
Hell no!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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isnt it odd that fat chicks give good BJ?

because thats what they need to go to get any sexual action started
 

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Kind of a shallow question I know but I'm bored and I was wondering ... You see black chads with fat white women all the time. Are they actually attracted to the fat?

Anyone here actually prefer chubby women?
As a black guy I can answer this. It is complicated. Us black guys like girls that are slightly chubby. Yes we find slightly chubby girls attractive. Slightly chubby is a lot different than fat. A perfect chubby girl is a singer called Jorja Smith. To me she is a 10/10 perfection.

This is alot different than a black guy dating a fat white girl. In that case that is the best that he can get. He is settling big time. Dating is difficult for black guys. We have the hardest time dating. We get the scraps of the white community and black girls are the most difficult to date. If you see a black guy with a hot girl of ANY race, just know that he definitely has game and a high SMV.
 

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As a black guy I can answer this. It is complicated. Us black guys like girls that are slightly chubby. Yes we find slightly chubby girls attractive. Slightly chubby is a lot different than fat. A perfect chubby girl is a singer called Jorja Smith. To me she is a 10/10 perfection.

This is alot different than a black guy dating a fat white girl. In that case that is the best that he can get. He is settling big time. Dating is difficult for black guys. We have the hardest time dating. We get the scraps of the white community and black girls are the most difficult to date. If you see a black guy with a hot girl of ANY race, just know that he definitely has game and a high SMV.
That b itch ain't chubby or fat.
 

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Not personally, no.

Although I did get a BJ once from a chubby 25 yo, it was, to this day, the best BJ I ever had.

I refused to fcuk her though.
I have to admit that I have had a similar experience. I'm not sure what this gal did, but it was truly incredible. Unfortunately, I think I did fcuk her after. :rolleyes:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I love slightly chubby women especially if they have big tits.
Don't like land whales though and anorexic chicks leave me cold too.
 

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No, I would not want to bang this even if she was an 18yo virgin. This is WAY far down the HB on my scale. I wouldnt even be drawn to her enough to flirt or smile,
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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