"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hinge is my new favorite OLD app...

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Have been on Hinge about a month now and have had phenomenal results with it....3 lays, women contacting me first like crazy, almost everyone I message messages me back, more dates and numbers than I can handle and in general it seems like a much higher percentage of good looking women.

Highly recommend those who haven't tried it to try it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Where are you using it and in what age range?
 

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Never heard of that, how does it work compared to tinder?
 

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Where are you using it and in what age range?
US...30-45.

And I prefer this age range before anyone comments about dating younger women. Noone will fvck you better than a horny woman in this age range trust me...and they are very open to experimentation even if they have never done something before.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Never heard of that, how does it work compared to tinder?
Basically your profile consists of answering 3 or 4 interesting questions from a whole bunch of questions they have available. Then you post your pics and name.

You can like either one of their questions or pictures and send a message which needs to be relatively short...something like under 100 characters...

Then if they decide to chat with you they reply back and its on like normal.

They can also like and reply to your answers/pics first as well if they want to.
 

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hah OP is 18 and dates fat 40 year olds
Nah, OP is 41 and dates in shape, good looking women in that age range that have real jobs, careers, know what they want and don't play silly games for the most part. Flake rate is almost zero.
And they love to fvck too because many of them are busy with kids/careers/etc and don't do it in between relationships.

Go have at with your 18 year olds that bring nothing to the table. That has no appeal to me.
 

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That's what I thought, I recall RooshV saying on his forum that guys who say they have great success with OLD are using it in NY, but now I can't find the quote.

I don't know how true that really is, but NY (and older women too) was what I was guessing and when that was right I remembered that Roosh statement. Not a dig on you, I'm glad for your success.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Its far better than anything else. I first used it about a year ago. Sometimes its best to keep what works good to yourself. Remember Tinder used to work pretty good too. ;) Once it turns into a sausage fest, everything goes down hill.
 

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That's what I thought, I recall RooshV saying on his forum that guys who say they have great success with OLD are using it in NY, but now I can't find the quote.

I don't know how true that really is, but NY (and older women too) was what I was guessing and when that was right I remembered that Roosh statement. Not a dig on you, I'm glad for your success.
I think I saw that before. Well duh NY would get the best results. Young city and one of the largest cities in the World. FB dating is also sorta like Hinge too.

I downloaded Hing but only gave me like 2 results within 35 miles. WTF is up with that lol. Same with Match. Maybe 2 users under 50 on daily in my entire county.

30-45? Posters give me flack on here going on dates with 40 year olds. Why the double standard?
 

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I think I saw that before. Well duh NY would get the best results. Young city and one of the largest cities in the World. FB dating is also sorta like Hinge too.

I downloaded Hing but only gave me like 2 results within 35 miles. WTF is up with that lol. Same with Match. Maybe 2 users under 50 on daily in my entire county.

30-45? Posters give me flack on here going on dates with 40 year olds. Why the double standard?
Cause you aren't getting laid and acting desperate
 

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That's what I thought, I recall RooshV saying on his forum that guys who say they have great success with OLD are using it in NY, but now I can't find the quote.

I don't know how true that really is, but NY (and older women too) was what I was guessing and when that was right I remembered that Roosh statement. Not a dig on you, I'm glad for your success.
Not really true. I and many guys I know don't do well with OLD and I'm in NYC
 

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Not really true. I and many guys I know don't do well with OLD and I'm in NYC
Unless you work 60 hours a week I don't know why one would even use OLD in a mega large city like NYC or LA. I'd think simply going out places you'd easily meet singles AND a lot better quality ones too. If I lived in LA I'd hangout at the beach, Venice boardwalk, etc. Anywhere lots of young people.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Not really true. I and many guys I know don't do well with OLD and I'm in NYC
Obviously not every man is gonna do well, OLD is not a good medium for men as a whole anywhere.
 

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Yep. If you're Gisele in her prime you become Gisele aged 34. If you're a 1, you go down to negative 1.
Gisele is still hot at 40. I got bashed on here last week for calling her a high end hb.

About a month ago I read a article by a feminist psychologist who said WOMEN outnumber men 3 to 1 on old rofl and that's why women cant find matches because too many women to choose from. Do people actually believe these c*nts? Fake news.
 

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Unless you work 60 hours a week I don't know why one would even use OLD in a mega large city like NYC or LA. I'd think simply going out places you'd easily meet singles AND a lot better quality ones too. If I lived in LA I'd hangout at the beach, Venice boardwalk, etc. Anywhere lots of young people.
LOL. I was working 60 hour/week in a large US West Coast city. OLD really helped.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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