Planning a weekend with a girl

[Trump]

why is everyone on here speaking like they are some alpha male A-list super star lol. I am a recovering incel, that fake confidence and abundance mentality ain't gonna fly.

When you throw out those terms, you are trolling.

Thanks for playing.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Oh give me a fvcking break dude, why is everyone on here speaking like they are some alpha male A-list super star lol. I am a recovering incel, that fake confidence and abundance mentality ain't gonna fly.

The "fake" confidence guys may be gettiing tons of puzzy. Thus they are drenched in confidence something an incel has deprived himself of.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

This. It’s so hard to believe how many men out there honestly don’t believe that a woman has no problem wasting your time. Then hanging out with you and doing stuff (even if it’s on a regular basis!) is wasting your time if you aren’t getting what you want. They really do feed off attention more than guys have a clue about. I’ve learned this the hard way so I speak from experience. I once went on “dates” with a girl for 7 months. 7 months! Got absolutely nothing passed 1st base. Ever. And I tried, God did I try. She even had me believing her excuses “sorry I just have a really low sex drive. Sorry I don’t hold eye contact because I feel vulnerable. Sorry I’m just not the touchy feely type.” I bought into ALL of it. Why? Because she kept asking to hangout and she’d never use the word friends, she’d act like we were dating, she’d invite ME on trips. I’m telling you we did all the relationship stuff you could imagine but never anything past kissing. Looking back after all those years I feel sooo stupid that she wasted so much of my time and that I bought all her excuses, but I did learn from it. 3 dates, no sex no Robert anymore. It’s a hard line but it’s effective at weeding out the time wasters.

Did you find out she was doing all the things she say she doesnt do with others?

 

[2Rocky]

Taking a woman you do not know well to spend the weekend with you is very high level stuff.

It CAN be done. I've done it.

That said, it is not a high percentage move for most situations with women.

Takes a TON of Rapport, along with sexual tension, and lack of alternatives on her part.

For a girl you can see in person on a regular basis casually it is incongruent.

For an out of town girl who you might not get a chance to see again for a while, it could work and get her out of somewhere someone would see her "with a new guy".

You need to be going whether she is or not, and "invite her to join you". You usually see this with rich guys inviting a girl (or girls) to come to their "weekend house".

 

[Robert28]

Did you find out she was doing all the things she say she doesnt do with others?

Not really but deep down I knew better. She would talk too much about her sexual past that it just wasn’t adding up. I thought for the longest time maybe she was on medication for anxiety or depression or something but even then, seems like those would be lifelong problems not recent ones to give her low sex drive. Did I think she had severe low self esteem issues? Yes.

 

[cruzinV]

So I texted her today to make plans.

Me: What tome do you get off work tomorrow? Let's meet up after and misbehave Haha
Her: I get off at 5!!
Me: are you down then? I plan to get there at around 7pm.
Her: yes, I'll go to work in early tomorrow to see if I can leave earlier. (She has family in the city were meeting in so she has a place to stay)
Me: Ok cool, it's set then. I'll see you tomorrow.
Me: I'm thinking of pregaming at a restaurant then hitting up a club.
Her:So you plan to be in town around 7 right?
Her: Well go wherever you want *smiley face*
Me: Yeah around 7, we can meet at my hotel and well leave from there.

So it seems like shes legit, ima go ahead and book a room. But man if she flakes ima be pissed, but I dont think she will.

 

[The Duke]

So I texted her today to make plans.

Me: What tome do you get off work tomorrow? Let's meet up after and misbehave Haha
Her: I get off at 5!!
Me: are you down then? I plan to get there at around 7pm.
Her: yes, I'll go to work in early tomorrow to see if I can leave earlier. (She has family in the city were meeting in so she has a place to stay)
Me: Ok cool, it's set then. I'll see you tomorrow.
Me: I'm thinking of pregaming at a restaurant then hitting up a club.
Her:So you plan to be in town around 7 right?
Her: Well go wherever you want *smiley face*
Me: Yeah around 7, we can meet at my hotel and well leave from there.

So it seems like shes legit, ima go ahead and book a room. But man if she flakes ima be pissed, but I dont think she will.

If she flakes, then make it your mission to pick up another girl while you are out and take her back to your hotel!

 

[2Rocky]

If she flakes, then make it your mission to pick up another girl while you are out and take her back to your hotel!

This^

Always have a back up plan. I've even done a Tinder search in the city I'm headed to to at least match with a few prospects...

"Family she plans to stay with" does not sound promising.

 

[cruzinV]

She told me yesterday to confirm I'm coming today, so I sent her a message earlier telling her ima head out there when I leave work. That's was two hours ago and I'm already going to my hotel but she hast replied yet. I guess it's still early.

 

[cruzinV]

5 hours later she texts me some bull**** excuse, fvck girls are savages.

 

[The Duke]

Never bend over backwards planning dates, especially in the early phase of courtship.

I like to keep it simple: I invite them to drink with me, and I am very specific with day, time, and place.

A drink at a local watering hole is absolutely fine...always...for the first meetup.

And if it's not fine, then she has other reasons for getting to know you that are not in your best interest.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

And if it's not fine, then she has other reasons for getting to know you that are not in your best interest.

Can we simplify it to 3 date rule and easy access to sex means shes properly interested?