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Hey bro, I have my next update planned for August 24th. I have a couple loose ends that I need to tie up before then. But honestly, I'm doing infinitely better and I kinda wanna come back to this with a "what I accomplished over summer" type post. I didn't mean to rant complain or make this journal so long, but I was going through a really rough spot last Spring tbh
Nah don't worry about it.
Yeah man for sure. I love this site.
This is huge. Congratulations. I think it's worth it to reflect on this (for yourself) and say what went wrong and what went right. Why'd you get an A in Video Game design and not the others? How could you have done better? What things helped you do so well in 4903? What are you going to do so that the next semester is all A's? Getting the A wasn't a coincidence, it's because of how you acted. So turn it into a recipe and get it again. Good sh!t bro.
Tbh it's not about the girls. It's about you and your mindset. Sure you want women. I would be lying if I didn't acknowledge that as a motivation. But you need to work on your inner game here. You don't need (re: 'can't progress') anything from women, want is a better word. You can progress, by working on your mindset. What you need is good grades, a good future, a healthy body and mind. So work on these things, and continue to work on the women thing alongside it. It's a numbers game, man. Keep seeing the girls that you made out with if they're willing to. If not, next. All the while, having a carefree attitude and not getting down on yourself, it will happen. If it's not happening, focus on yourself more. Grind harder. Increase SMV. Get your numbers up. They will come. And when they do, it will all be worth it. Recently I've met a girl who could be relationship material. She initiates, she's intelligent, she's funny, blah blah she ticks my boxes. My point in bringing it up is that I dated (went on dates with) and smashed/kissed a handful of girls before her. I approached many more than I was successful with, was rejected/friendzoned by a large percentage. But I didn't get down on myself, I realized that I needed to keep pushing. Get my SMV up. Try again. Abundance mindset. There will be lows. But the highs will be worth it. It is the nature of the game that there are more lows than highs. Accept it and make the most of it. This girl makes me happy, but I also have to keep in mind that this girl is what I deserve and there are plenty of other girls out there like her. Your time will come man, keep getting after it. 12-15 is such an arbitrary number. Just figure out how to have fun and be a guy that you respect and second to that: that men respect, and second to that: that women respect.
Thanks dude. I'm pleased with these grades but like you said I want all As next Semester.
I think there's nothing wrong with going out alone. It depends on your motivation though. If you're going out to 'sarge' as they used to say... I think that's the wrong motivation. If you want to go to see live music and you want to do it by yourself or no one was available to go... that's just fine. I've been out a few times by myself. To get food, to go to the mall, etc. And I've definitely seen/said hi to women when I was out during those times. But the women weren't my motivation for being out, I was just living my life.
This summer, I used the recorded class lectures, the book, occasionally went to the office hours and used the internet. No tutoring though. It'd probably help if I went to tutoring next semester, especially for Assembly.
The right Tutor will connect with you and plug in the correct mindset to see and acquire that type of info. Its like AMS or Player supreme being directly in your ear and coaching you thru your female game. Never fall behind again. Imagine rolling up on tests knowing youll crush it and never having to cram. Imagine all the class room info absorbing in your mind like its a sponge because you understand all the foundation concepts and on the brain wavelength to absorb it.
Getting all As is one of my major goals next semester. Achieving it would do a ton for me. I'll hit up my advisor once class starts and ask them to help me find a tutor for these higher level courses.
I feel this. I'm studying for an exam I have in 6 hours.
Switch advisor/tutor till you find one you connect with. You will leave the sessions empowered and energized. The wrong advisor will drain your energy.
It sounds so simple in concept but in execution it's more complicated lol. What class, by the way?
Linear algebra.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Yeah I'll be in there next semester man. I hope your exam went well
Cheers man. I think I aced that sh!t. We'll see.
True true. My motivation for getting all As is the clout and to boost my GPA. I wanna be that "super smart dude," I need to get it to a 3+ ASAP. I'm nearly there already. If I can be a dude with work experience, personal projects, and a 3.1 GPA? I would hire me, so I'm sure others would too.
