I'm not. I'm just a kid at heart!
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I'm spending hours a day on OLD. Is that an issue? Obsessed?
- Thread starter biggoal
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
Why the obsession with the HB 9 hottie? Do you consume pornography?
On occasion like most of us I will go on pornhub. You know what would be a neat job? To be that dude who does the back room casting videos series!
ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
The thing is it becomes a vicious circle. You spend hours scrolling through hotties on the dating apps, get frustrated, visit P site, rinse and repeat. The two are probably tied at the hip. Why not give yourself a challenge and see if you can go cold turkey... from both the apps and porn? And then see how you get on in real life talking to women you meet in the normal course of your day.
I'll still talk to that one 44 yr old HB7. We plan on meeting up.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
In regards to my previous post about looking and dressing good and throwing cash down on like a Breitling or Rolex, what about a nice shirt like one of those Chairman Mao shirts you see the Marshal, Kim Jong un wearing? They look really fancy, especially if you're a slim guy. He looks good for a fat guy in it.
Well this is the type of chick I'm looking for on OLD. Like this Morgan Brian from the women's soccer team. Athletic, slim and an HB9. Perfect looking. granted that one I went on that date with was built very similar to her except older of course. Goofy personality too. Totally would smash it hard.
So I messaged an HB 7 yesterday and she read the message and then looked at my profile. Anyway today she viewed my profile again. Should I send little jokingly flirty message about looking at my profile again and to not be shy?
Like my work I do a couple nights at the grocery store you will see a few HB7s and 8s shopping but you can't really hit on them while in the ugly uniform. They will see you as a min wage loser trying to chat them up even though I own a business. They don't see it that way.
Why is it you hear about VERY few successful stories about OLD leading to long term relationships? Very seldom do I hear anything positive about it. Especially on this site and loveshack most don't seem to be very big fans of OLD, especially on here.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She did reply back and said we have a lot in common with each other and she liked what she saw on my profile, but me being over 60 miles away she said it was simply just too far away from her. I believe her profile said within 40 miles so I was really stretching it. That's the problem. 80 percent of the chicks I have to message are at the very least 40 miles away. Most 50-70 miles away so you see where that's going. Like I said, my county and nearby there simply isn't a lot on OLD. Ironic further away I have better luck getting replies in that 40-50 mile range from the more urban areas. Like that HB9 two weeks ago was 60 miles away from me. I message the ones closer by and just not a lot of luck. The closer to Tampa I go the more replies.
I can't see how anything could really work over 40 miles away to be honest, but where I live and the lack of choices I really have no choice to really extend my boundaries.
Nope. I actually have ADHD though. Not as hyper as I was when I was younger though. I actually wouldn't shut up in school nor would I pay attention in class.
Okay biggoal.