Lol. Ok say let's go back a million years when men had to defend the tribe against sabretooth tigers and other nomadic men. Who do you think were the most attractive men then? Masculine and dominant men. Men with high testosterone. Not pretty boys.
And who do you think were the most desirable women? Young, fertile, healthy, with hips, booty, and t!ts.
By design, women go for survival qualities. And men go for signs of fertility. This is evolution.
Men and women are not the same. We don't have the same brains. We don't offer the same qualities. We don't use the same tools to survive. Men use their dominance and women use their feminine charms to seduce these dominant men.
So you think our programming has changed somehow because society has changed?
That’s all well and fine, but we don’t live in tribes and it’s not a million years ago. It’s today, we live in today.
And no one is debating that young and fertile women are not what men prefer. EVERYONE knows young fertile women are what men prefer lol.
And everyone knows that women like manly men. Well, maybe not all women but they should lol.
Some things have not changed, that’s true, but some things certainly have changed. And one of those things is women don’t need to rely on men to survive, they can now
choose to rely on men to survive. And men don’t need to provide for women, they can now
choose to provide for women. This has changed a lot of how we date and have relationships, for better or for worse.
Many of the things that were were necessary to survive in a tribe a million years ago are not necessary anymore. And people are a lot less cooperative within a group, working together for the common good. We don’t do that as much anymore, we are all a bit more selfish now.
And, I’m not arguing men and woman are the same. I am however arguing that woman do place some importance on looks for their sexual satisfaction. We don’t see obese male strippers do we? Mind you half of the are probably gay but some women sure love pawing at their biceps and other body parts
.
And the 50 shades of grey guy wasn’t played by a fat 65yr old man.
Women like good looks. Don’t have to be a ripped fitness model but having something going on the looks dept certainly helps, for young and older men.
An ugly man with money and power will attract women, because he has money and power. A hot broke guy will attract women because he’s hot.
Two different types of attraction, not necessarily wise choices for women in the long run though.