Now that's the right attitude.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
So what's your baldness situation?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
PeasantPlayer
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For most, I would argue the rock owns his baldness and a few others, celebrity wise
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I´d like to keep my hair, but not for anything related to girls or game, I just wanna do it for me. I like having hair.
Mike32ct
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It is tricky for a balding white dude.
For a possible relationship, he might be better off leaving SOME hair on his head rather than shaving it clean. (Just cut it short.) Most potential LTR women don’t want a bald head in their wedding pic.
For ONS/plates/STRs, a shaved head is preferred (assuming the guy can pull it off) because balding is a non-starter here.
For a possible relationship, he might be better off leaving SOME hair on his head rather than shaving it clean. (Just cut it short.) Most potential LTR women don’t want a bald head in their wedding pic.
For ONS/plates/STRs, a shaved head is preferred (assuming the guy can pull it off) because balding is a non-starter here.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
its registered in usa and does not open in uk browsers unfortunately:
any experience with this product?: https://www.minoxidilmax.com/topical-finasteride-with-minoxidil-shop-Dualgen-15-NO-PG-Plus
ps what is the shedding like with minoxidil? I have fairly long hair, will it all come out at first?
that fr12 stuff looks good. Tried searching for it on google, nowhere seems to sell it other than the link you provided
RickTheToad
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Sheading isn't bad; at least for me. You may want to consider using a VPN then or just e-mailing them. They are super helpful.its registered in usa and does not open in uk browsers unfortunately:
any experience with this product?: https://www.minoxidilmax.com/topical-finasteride-with-minoxidil-shop-Dualgen-15-NO-PG-Plus
ps what is the shedding like with minoxidil? I have fairly long hair, will it all come out at first?
that fr12 stuff looks good. Tried searching for it on google, nowhere seems to sell it other than the link you provided
managed to get the website working, the vpn worked.. Just reading the directions.. it says leave on your scalp for 4 hours a day before rinsing... is this what you do? Is this every day?
RickTheToad
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I massage it in to my scalp in the morning and then again at night before I go to sleep.
do you leave it in for 4 hours?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
RickTheToad
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Yes, you leave it in. The only time it's not in your scalp is during washing your hair.
escaleraroyal
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I started to use rogaine. Top area is thinning. Does Rogaine lower your sex drive? I did not read it anywhere.
RickTheToad
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Dude, it works.
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Dude, if you are doing it for anyone else, then you are already behind the eight ball. One does it for themselves, not for others. But hey, if you like the horseshoe look or can rock the shaved head, go for it. More props to you if you can pull either off. I prefer my full head of hair, but that's just me.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Mike32ct
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I honestly wish I could agree the theory that, "Balding is only an issue if it affects your confidence." But I can't.
When she sees a bald spot, her reaction is "Eww gross/he's old/he looks like my dad." Such a guy won't have a chance to "out-game" or "out-frame" his balding*.
*Unless she's like 38+ yo. Then she might cut him some slack. But younger women are merciless on this one.
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RickTheToad
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Most men, aside from the one's who can pull off the shaved head look, prefer to have a nice head of hair; not a bald spot. So, if that's mean's I am a sinner, then well, I'd rather laugh with the sinners than cry with the saints The sinners are much more fun..
RickTheToad
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Let's just agree to disagree.
RickTheToad
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No worries. MinoxidilMAX.com
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.