"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Seducing late teens/early 20's

Plinco

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Four most important things I can think of:

1.) Have a life, meaning knowing exactly where you are going and why.
2.) Be happy that you are achieving thing #1.
3.) Jack up testosterone and HGH so you really feel like going for these ladies and feel more comfortable doing it.
4.) Surround yourself with young and interesting people.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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wifehunter

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Four most important things I can think of:

1.) Have a life, meaning knowing exactly where you are going and why.
2.) Be happy that you are achieving thing #1.
3.) Jack up testosterone and HGH so you really feel like going for these ladies and feel more comfortable doing it.
4.) Surround yourself with young and interesting people.

Does anyone have anything else to add?
It's too easy at this age...

But there's a HUGE Problem... parents don't teach these girls how to deal with their emotions, so they easily lose their sh!t, and can't deal.

Be prepared for huge dissappointment.

I don't let things get to the 'involved' stage.

Someday, I'll strike gold.
 

skinnyguy

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Four most important things I can think of:

1.) Have a life, meaning knowing exactly where you are going and why.
2.) Be happy that you are achieving thing #1.
3.) Jack up testosterone and HGH so you really feel like going for these ladies and feel more comfortable doing it.
4.) Surround yourself with young and interesting people.

Does anyone have anything else to add?
Have at least 10K followers on Instagram
 

fastlife

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Be fun and chill. Dont take things too seriously.
Ya, you can pretty much skip 1-4.

1. Hot girls will date unstable losers (do it for you).
2. See post one (do if for you).
3. Uhh...no thanks lol. If you are trying to fight aging or your d1ck needs a little help or you have a physical disability, by all means. But this sounds like you don't believe that your natural self, and your natural hormonal profile, is good enough.
4. Hang out with people you lf they're not the same kind of people hot girls like, go out by yourself on weekends (or just leave your friends from time to time to circle the venue). Once a girl likes you (and girls'll hook up with you even if you're out by yourself) she'll like your lifestyle, your car, your choice in fashion, will tolerate your friends, will laugh at your sh1tty jokes--even if all that stuff, by any objective standards, ain't all that great.

My short answer is this: Genuinely learn to like yourself & go up and talk to them. If you feel bad when you get rejected, repeat step 1. If you keep getting rejected, learn some stuff online and try again.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hamurabimbi

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For some reason, almost all my Tinder dates have been in this age range. And I’m significantly older. They’ Flaky, emotional & immature. However, there is no need to ‘seduce ‘ them, as they’re up for it if they’re into you. IRL I seem to attract 27-29, they actually do require a bit of seduction.
tbh not sure if this is an age thing or a Tinder. Vs IRL thing
 

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Ya, you can pretty much skip 1-4.

1. Hot girls will date unstable losers (do it for you).
2. See post one (do if for you).
3. Uhh...no thanks lol. If you are trying to fight aging or your d1ck needs a little help or you have a physical disability, by all means. But this sounds like you don't believe that your natural self, and your natural hormonal profile, is good enough.
4. Hang out with people you lf they're not the same kind of people hot girls like, go out by yourself on weekends (or just leave your friends from time to time to circle the venue). Once a girl likes you (and girls'll hook up with you even if you're out by yourself) she'll like your lifestyle, your car, your choice in fashion, will tolerate your friends, will laugh at your sh1tty jokes--even if all that stuff, by any objective standards, ain't all that great.

My short answer is this: Genuinely learn to like yourself & go up and talk to them. If you feel bad when you get rejected, repeat step 1. If you keep getting rejected, learn some stuff online and try again.
Personally, I pull better when I am happy.
 

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For some reason, almost all my Tinder dates have been in this age range. And I’m significantly older. They’ Flaky, emotional & immature. However, there is no need to ‘seduce ‘ them, as they’re up for it if they’re into you. IRL I seem to attract 27-29, they actually do require a bit of seduction.
tbh not sure if this is an age thing or a Tinder. Vs IRL thing
yes
Older women are much easier to attract but young women are a hell of a lot more fun
 
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