Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Seducing late teens/early 20's

Plinco

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Four most important things I can think of:

1.) Have a life, meaning knowing exactly where you are going and why.
2.) Be happy that you are achieving thing #1.
3.) Jack up testosterone and HGH so you really feel like going for these ladies and feel more comfortable doing it.
4.) Surround yourself with young and interesting people.

Does anyone have anything else to add?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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wifehunter

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Four most important things I can think of:

1.) Have a life, meaning knowing exactly where you are going and why.
2.) Be happy that you are achieving thing #1.
3.) Jack up testosterone and HGH so you really feel like going for these ladies and feel more comfortable doing it.
4.) Surround yourself with young and interesting people.

Does anyone have anything else to add?
It's too easy at this age...

But there's a HUGE Problem... parents don't teach these girls how to deal with their emotions, so they easily lose their sh!t, and can't deal.

Be prepared for huge dissappointment.

I don't let things get to the 'involved' stage.

Someday, I'll strike gold.
 

skinnyguy

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Four most important things I can think of:

1.) Have a life, meaning knowing exactly where you are going and why.
2.) Be happy that you are achieving thing #1.
3.) Jack up testosterone and HGH so you really feel like going for these ladies and feel more comfortable doing it.
4.) Surround yourself with young and interesting people.

Does anyone have anything else to add?
Have at least 10K followers on Instagram
 

fastlife

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Be fun and chill. Dont take things too seriously.
Ya, you can pretty much skip 1-4.

1. Hot girls will date unstable losers (do it for you).
2. See post one (do if for you).
3. Uhh...no thanks lol. If you are trying to fight aging or your d1ck needs a little help or you have a physical disability, by all means. But this sounds like you don't believe that your natural self, and your natural hormonal profile, is good enough.
4. Hang out with people you lf they're not the same kind of people hot girls like, go out by yourself on weekends (or just leave your friends from time to time to circle the venue). Once a girl likes you (and girls'll hook up with you even if you're out by yourself) she'll like your lifestyle, your car, your choice in fashion, will tolerate your friends, will laugh at your sh1tty jokes--even if all that stuff, by any objective standards, ain't all that great.

My short answer is this: Genuinely learn to like yourself & go up and talk to them. If you feel bad when you get rejected, repeat step 1. If you keep getting rejected, learn some stuff online and try again.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hamurabimbi

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For some reason, almost all my Tinder dates have been in this age range. And I’m significantly older. They’ Flaky, emotional & immature. However, there is no need to ‘seduce ‘ them, as they’re up for it if they’re into you. IRL I seem to attract 27-29, they actually do require a bit of seduction.
tbh not sure if this is an age thing or a Tinder. Vs IRL thing
 

Plinco

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Ya, you can pretty much skip 1-4.

1. Hot girls will date unstable losers (do it for you).
2. See post one (do if for you).
3. Uhh...no thanks lol. If you are trying to fight aging or your d1ck needs a little help or you have a physical disability, by all means. But this sounds like you don't believe that your natural self, and your natural hormonal profile, is good enough.
4. Hang out with people you lf they're not the same kind of people hot girls like, go out by yourself on weekends (or just leave your friends from time to time to circle the venue). Once a girl likes you (and girls'll hook up with you even if you're out by yourself) she'll like your lifestyle, your car, your choice in fashion, will tolerate your friends, will laugh at your sh1tty jokes--even if all that stuff, by any objective standards, ain't all that great.

My short answer is this: Genuinely learn to like yourself & go up and talk to them. If you feel bad when you get rejected, repeat step 1. If you keep getting rejected, learn some stuff online and try again.
Personally, I pull better when I am happy.
 

Plinco

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For some reason, almost all my Tinder dates have been in this age range. And I’m significantly older. They’ Flaky, emotional & immature. However, there is no need to ‘seduce ‘ them, as they’re up for it if they’re into you. IRL I seem to attract 27-29, they actually do require a bit of seduction.
tbh not sure if this is an age thing or a Tinder. Vs IRL thing
yes
Older women are much easier to attract but young women are a hell of a lot more fun
 
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