“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Seducing late teens/early 20's

Plinco

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Four most important things I can think of:

1.) Have a life, meaning knowing exactly where you are going and why.
2.) Be happy that you are achieving thing #1.
3.) Jack up testosterone and HGH so you really feel like going for these ladies and feel more comfortable doing it.
4.) Surround yourself with young and interesting people.

Does anyone have anything else to add?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

wifehunter

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Four most important things I can think of:

1.) Have a life, meaning knowing exactly where you are going and why.
2.) Be happy that you are achieving thing #1.
3.) Jack up testosterone and HGH so you really feel like going for these ladies and feel more comfortable doing it.
4.) Surround yourself with young and interesting people.

Does anyone have anything else to add?
It's too easy at this age...

But there's a HUGE Problem... parents don't teach these girls how to deal with their emotions, so they easily lose their sh!t, and can't deal.

Be prepared for huge dissappointment.

I don't let things get to the 'involved' stage.

Someday, I'll strike gold.
 

skinnyguy

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Four most important things I can think of:

1.) Have a life, meaning knowing exactly where you are going and why.
2.) Be happy that you are achieving thing #1.
3.) Jack up testosterone and HGH so you really feel like going for these ladies and feel more comfortable doing it.
4.) Surround yourself with young and interesting people.

Does anyone have anything else to add?
Have at least 10K followers on Instagram
 

fastlife

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Be fun and chill. Dont take things too seriously.
Ya, you can pretty much skip 1-4.

1. Hot girls will date unstable losers (do it for you).
2. See post one (do if for you).
3. Uhh...no thanks lol. If you are trying to fight aging or your d1ck needs a little help or you have a physical disability, by all means. But this sounds like you don't believe that your natural self, and your natural hormonal profile, is good enough.
4. Hang out with people you lf they're not the same kind of people hot girls like, go out by yourself on weekends (or just leave your friends from time to time to circle the venue). Once a girl likes you (and girls'll hook up with you even if you're out by yourself) she'll like your lifestyle, your car, your choice in fashion, will tolerate your friends, will laugh at your sh1tty jokes--even if all that stuff, by any objective standards, ain't all that great.

My short answer is this: Genuinely learn to like yourself & go up and talk to them. If you feel bad when you get rejected, repeat step 1. If you keep getting rejected, learn some stuff online and try again.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Hamurabimbi

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For some reason, almost all my Tinder dates have been in this age range. And I’m significantly older. They’ Flaky, emotional & immature. However, there is no need to ‘seduce ‘ them, as they’re up for it if they’re into you. IRL I seem to attract 27-29, they actually do require a bit of seduction.
tbh not sure if this is an age thing or a Tinder. Vs IRL thing
 

Plinco

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Ya, you can pretty much skip 1-4.

1. Hot girls will date unstable losers (do it for you).
2. See post one (do if for you).
3. Uhh...no thanks lol. If you are trying to fight aging or your d1ck needs a little help or you have a physical disability, by all means. But this sounds like you don't believe that your natural self, and your natural hormonal profile, is good enough.
4. Hang out with people you lf they're not the same kind of people hot girls like, go out by yourself on weekends (or just leave your friends from time to time to circle the venue). Once a girl likes you (and girls'll hook up with you even if you're out by yourself) she'll like your lifestyle, your car, your choice in fashion, will tolerate your friends, will laugh at your sh1tty jokes--even if all that stuff, by any objective standards, ain't all that great.

My short answer is this: Genuinely learn to like yourself & go up and talk to them. If you feel bad when you get rejected, repeat step 1. If you keep getting rejected, learn some stuff online and try again.
Personally, I pull better when I am happy.
 

Plinco

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For some reason, almost all my Tinder dates have been in this age range. And I’m significantly older. They’ Flaky, emotional & immature. However, there is no need to ‘seduce ‘ them, as they’re up for it if they’re into you. IRL I seem to attract 27-29, they actually do require a bit of seduction.
tbh not sure if this is an age thing or a Tinder. Vs IRL thing
yes
Older women are much easier to attract but young women are a hell of a lot more fun
 
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