"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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krass said:
I've always been intrigued by this question, so let's put this out there for the heck of it:

What kind of sex did your bpd give you that got you hooked? I'm asking because the bpd I was with wasn't particularly dirty or kinky in bed. The sex was quite passionate though. How about you guys?
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It was like having sex with myself.. if that makes sense. Every touch, move, position she just was highly intuitive to my needs and wants without verbal communication. Does that make sense? It was the spiritual connection more than the physical one. She just bonded to me like glue and made me feel ways I'd never felt before. I hate BJ's before I met her. They soon became my favourite thing. It's not necessary dirty/kinky like you often read.. it's just... Perfect..
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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wolf said:
It was like having sex with myself.. if that makes sense. Every touch, move, position she just was highly intuitive to my needs and wants without verbal communication. Does that make sense? It was the spiritual connection more than the physical one. She just bonded to me like glue and made me feel ways I'd never felt before. I hate BJ's before I met her. They soon became my favourite thing. It's not necessary dirty/kinky like you often read.. it's just... Perfect..
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LARaiders85 said:
Fake, mechanical, and detached but at the same time very rough and down for literally anything. I wasnt really addicted. NPD chameleon I dated was more like what @wolf described, mirrored me.
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Yeah she did try her best to read me and anticipate my likes and dislikes. I guess what guys get hooked into isn't necessarily the sex then but the promise of genuine connection.
 
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SmoothTalker I am in no way trying to discount you or anyone's terrible experiences with BPD women. I'm sure it can be hell.

The point I take issue with is when she starts acting up and the guy allows it to happen. As you say you are telling your friends tales of her insanity and they don't even believe it because it is so ridiculous.

The fact that you continue to expose yourself to this type of behaviour knowing full well it is wrong is where I don't understand. Would you accept this type of behaviour from any other person in your life? What about a guy friend? What about a real ugly girl?

What about if during your relationship with a BPD girl you start seeing a REALLY great and beautiful normal girl on the side? She's level headed, smart, fun, super sexy, sexual, and pretty much perfect in every way possible. What happens to your BPD addiction then???

If you choose the normal girl then were you really addicted to the BPD? If you choose the BPD then are you anything but weak?

So that is why I say that you guys need to take some responsibility for your BPD addictions. It seems to me that you are choosing sex over your own sanity.
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this old post is why platespinning, abundance making and nexting became so important.
Protects men and everyone really, from BPDs and their infuence. I get it.
 
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