Update - hanging out one-on-one tonight with woman from “woman’s morality and cheating” thread

[Scaramouche]

Dear Bachus,
My Son played a game like that,worked with a Guy,knew when he was on night shift....No sordid story for you all, just the aftermath...So far,he has had three Cars torched...Lives in fear,of course ,the Cuckolded Guy is always on "Nights" when the Cars go up in Flames,he knows the Cars he drives where he lives,Eezy Peezy...SAZC is not just a pretty face either, I look for a ring,reach for her hand and pass a complimentary remark then say "Must be an interesting story to this one"...As he says it breaks the ice and you get an immediate reaction...Straightaway you know where you stand!

 

[zekko]

If she cheats anyway then why it should be with someone else instead of OP?

If a pig wants to wallow in the mud, why should you join her?

 

[AttackFormation]

If I could, I'd buy OP a harem full of high end attractive hookers right now, just so he would keep his desperate d1ck away from that pregnant woman. I would!!!

I feel for her husband a million times over!!!

It is insanely hard for any man to learn, that behind his back, another man has been fvcking his wife/gf. Amplify exponentially that distress and heartbreak, with FOREVER being stuck with the image and knowing that another man's d1ck and cvm, was in your woman, while she is/was pregnant with (what he believes, at least at the moment, and very well still could turn out to be) his OWN child!!! Another's man's d1ck in there!

Many lives will be permanently and horrifically fvcked up by OP's choice to pursue this. Understand, I am NOT excusing the woman's previous indiscretions, her interactions with OP, or her potential willingness to be fvcked by him now. I am NOT. OP, alone, has the power and choice NOT to pursue her further and NOT to participate. I am NOT excusing her. I am asking OP not to participate and to find some other woman to get his rocks off with.

This woman's husband, in fact NO MAN, should have to face the horrid reality, of forever knowing another man's d1ck was inside his pregnant wife/gf, fvcking her, with child.

It saddens me tremendously that some men and women, think nothing of it.

If OP fvcks her, at some point her husband will find out. Her husband's pain will be incomprehensible. It does not have to be that way. OP can opt out.

The fact that she has the deliberate, remorseless intent is as bad as the act itself. If I was that guy, it wouldn't matter to me whether she actually cheated or not. If I could read her mind and see that she plans to cheat, and that it's not a momentary fantasy but a deliberate choice, then I would break up with her. And that's without even knowing that she already is cheating with other guys than OP. At this point it's just the carrion feeders cleaning the corpse up... yeah it's an ugly process, but the body is already dead. The other option is for him to live a lie and I suppose you could argue that causes less pain, but it's also not something he would want if he knew.

 

[lamath]

Funny Af thread.

Good Advice @sazc
It would actually work with no married and no pregnant women too loll

 

[bacchus]

Update - just blew my load inside her pregnant snatch. Best form of birth control ever.

Knocked off two fetishes in one lay - I can now say I’ve banged sisters and a preggo chick.

I’m going to sleep like a baby tonight.

And let’s goooooooo Raptors.

 

[bacchus]

The fact that she has the deliberate, remorseless intent is as bad as the act itself. If I was that guy, it wouldn't matter to me whether she actually cheated or not. If I could read her mind and see that she plans to cheat, and that it's not a momentary fantasy but a deliberate choice, then I would break up with her. And that's without even knowing that she already is cheating with other guys than OP. At this point it's just the carrion feeders cleaning the corpse up... yeah it's an ugly process, but the body is already dead. The other option is for him to live a lie and I suppose you could argue that causes less pain, but it's also not something he would want if he knew.

About 50% of married men out there are living this lie my friend, and they’re quite blissful in their ignorance.

Anyone who doesn’t realize how prevalent cheating is isn’t at the top of the SMV food chain. These hoes ain’t loyal. Might as well take down as many as you can.

 

[RickTheToad]

Very sad. Hopefully, the guy doesn't find out and then shoot you. I know, if that was me, well... I am not sure who's more fvcked up in the head, the OP or the POS wife?

 

[YourGreatestFear]

I assume most guys here just don't get laid.. if you have had experience with at least 50 women in your life then you should have already fcked someone else's gf or wife. Because often they wouldn't even tell you what they have bf or husband before sex.

You guys are way too conservative. It is Don Juan forum, not "how to find proper wife" forum. Both Don Juan (in book) and Casanova fcked taken women all the time. Because back then all attractive women were taken after all. Most girls were married before age of 16, you know?

Evolutionary most effective sexual strategy for human male is to fck woman and then allow someone else take care about kid. You also assumed what she is pregnant by her husband's kid, even though OP already stated it clearly what she cheated on him more than once. OP have zero responsibility for her actions and for her husband's happiness - it has nothing to do with him.

 

[Spaz]

I've fvcked a few women that suddenly decided to come clean the next morning that they're married, engaged or has a long term boyfriend.

Some of them were even truly remorseful, one can't even stop sobbing, really turned me off.

I had one husband begging me to leave his wife alone, idealised her so much so that he was willing to stooped so low in his grovelling that I just couldn't help but have pity on his sorry ass - that was one big drama.

But I've never knowingly fvcked a married women, heck, even an engaged woman is off limits.

It's not because I'm a good guy or because I'm moralistic.

It's because of the drama that ensues is just not worth the fvck.

When a woman cheats, they'll lie their asses off like a fvcking pro conman to both men.

Think about that before proceeding.

 

[bacchus]

LiveYourDream, your sensitivity and naiveté is what’s appalling to me.

I’ve been faithful through my relationships (not that I judge men who aren’t). I’m now a single man, having consensual sex, with consensual adults. You paint a picture of me as some kind of monster for doing that. And then whine to the mods like a little boy.

As another poster indicated, you must not get laid much.

I’ve been hurt by infidelity in the past - unbelievably so, probably to an extent most people on this forum including you wouldn’t be able to fathom. But I also know that the infidelity had nothing to do with the other man/men. And I’ve never held ill will toward that person for it. He was just a guy who owed nothing to me, doing what guys do.

A relationship is the responsibility of the two people in it, bottom line.

Your visceral anger towards me is, for a lack of other ways to describe it, very beta. Not even saying that to put you down, but it’s true.

And I’m no troll. I’m nothing if not honest, which is what this forum is supposed to be about.

I’m also an incredibly loyal person to the people in my life. I’m no “POS”, I’d go for a wall for my friends and family. Your holier-than-thou attitude is annoying, and makes me pretty certain that you don’t have any high value men in your social circle either bc if you did, you’d realize that how I’m conducting myself is pretty normal for those with options.

The reaction of some of these guys makes me question why I come here for guidance.

If the mods have a problem with how I’ve expressed myself, please let me know and outline the reasons in this thread, and I’ll go ahead and delete my account myself to make LiveYourDream happy.

 

[Machine10033]

I have slept with married chicks in the past and dealing with the drama that can ensue is not worth it. One girl claimed she was seperated and claimed her and her husband were not living together. She sends me a nights worth of raunchy texts and pictures. Turns out they still live together and she had him on the hook for marriage counseling so he thought they could reconcile. Well he finds all her texts.... I get a message while eating lunch with my boss saying “hey, will found my messages from last night.... he left the house with a shotgun, he’s going to kill himself!” At that moment I nearly puked my food up. He didn’t kill him self thankfully but that feeling I experienced was enough for me to stay away from any chick in a committed relationship.

 

[bacchus]

Lol LiveYourDream, yes, I’m desperate without options. That’s the only possibility. I’m sure you have so much to teach me, that you’re a successful, renaissance man who pulls 10s on command.

I’m out lol. Thanks for the lesson, oh wise one.

 

[Spaz]

Lol LiveYourDream, yes, I’m desperate without options. That’s the only possibility. I’m sure you have so much to teach me, that you’re a successful, renaissance man who pulls 10s on command.

I’m out lol. Thanks for the lesson, oh wise one.

Live Your Dream is a woman.

Don't fvck care about the others here.

You're decided on the path you wish to take after taking in the advice of the forum and knowing the risks.

Good luck.

Ain't no one is going to judge you for being a man.

 

[sazc]

True, but you shouldn't encourage others to do sh!t like this. Your golden vagina and larger than average rack cannot protect them.

Lmao. IMO engaging in any part of the cheating scenario shows that you are a low quality indivifual, but he didn't ask that. He asked how to look for IOIs

 

[sazc]

Her being pregnant with his kids and following you around pubs is repulsive on a visceral level.

She's EXTREMELY low quality

 

[bacchus]

Never said she was high quality or that I wanted to wife her up. She’s just hot and I wanted to smash.

*** I didn’t realize LiveYourDream was a woman, explains why she got emotional and asked the mods to play white knight for her.

LiveYourDream - what does it say about the state of your mental health that you spend time in these forums dispensing dating and relationship advice to men? Validation seeking much? You don’t see us spending our free time on the Cosmo forums giving women dating advice.

Anyway, his thread has spiralled. I’m done lol.

 

[lamath]

She's EXTREMELY low quality

Some people's trash is other people's treasure.

 

[guru1000]

OP you obfuscate the meaning of having high value. If a man has infinite value, for example, he no longer has value to take. His vessel is full. In such an instant, he can only give value and cannot take what he has no room for.

Your act was one of complete taking.

A high value guy can turn down sex not only with “complicated affairs” but can do the same with women with absolutely no baggage (no bf, no husband, no kid) <<read that again.

If I told you how many times I rejected sex from hot women on a first date, open solicitations, or even girls I knew simply because the act wasn’t going to serve them (and thus myself) over the LT. See ... when you have that much value, the act of “taking” from them belies your own value (of being a full vessel). It demonstrates I need that validation (from them) and thus am not full.

Has nothing to do mortality and everything to do with the value you truly hold.

Empty vessels seek validation (of self). Full vessels reject self-validation and only give. Not everyone is at any extreme at any given time, but when you commit an act of straight “stripping,” it demonstrates that you have been that empty vessel for some time.

You mentioned that you were cheated on in the past. There was a lesson there for you but You learned the wrong lesson my friend. You should feel sorry for “her,”—your cheating ex— for her need to be validated to such a degree to attempt to strip you of your dignity (and actually succeeding). Instead, you learned to be like her.

That’s the wrong lesson my friend.

 

[RickTheToad]

Lmao. IMO engaging in any part of the cheating scenario shows that you are a low quality indivifual, but he didn't ask that. He asked how to look for IOIs

What if @sazc gets very drunk and pops her boobs out? Would that be an IOI? ;'p

 

[sazc]

What if @sazc gets very drunk and pops her boobs out? Would that be an IOI? ;'p

Lol @sazc doesn't do that with randos. @sazc will do that with her man. I do drink but I also realize that I can't "act out' while intoxicated and expect no reprecussions, so I keep it tame, even when drinking.

Sorry... Never cheated, never will. Don't see the point. Just break up of you're that unhappy. Have been cheated on and found out much later. Not my issue.