"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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jaymbrs

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Waitresses were the most fun for me. I spent about 5 years in the service industry so bedded quite a few of them. They were all skanks. My last 2 gfs work in the financial industry and both were the adventurous type.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i just found out my date tomorrow is a nurse.

Maybe i should cancel lollll
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Nurses are cool, just a tad adventurous, with clubbing etc.
i dont think she the clubing kind , but the sexual innuendo type.

It will be fun, ill worry about her proffesion after round 3 lolll
 

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i dont think she the clubing kind , but the sexual innuendo type.

It will be fun, ill worry about her proffesion after round 3 lolll
Just bang, show no mercy, just don't project an overly eager stance early on.

Play it cool, let her seduce you 1st and then seduce her back like a pro.
 

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Just bang, show no mercy, just don't project an overly eager stance early on.

Play it cool, let her seduce you 1st and then seduce her back like a pro.
Yep thats my plan.
Afternoon date however so probably not same day bang
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Coffee in the afternoon we are both not working tomorrow afternoon.
You think night venu is better?
Change it to night or better yet an evening date since I assume this is the 1st date?

I'd suggest doing some fun activities 1st and after that there's something to talk/relate, take it from there.
 

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I agree it would be best but im very limited where i live, all coffee shop are close after 5, and on week day no decent bar is open after 9pm

Any opinion on driving to a near by city thats about 30-40min away, not sure if driving there together in same car is a good idea.
 

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My most positive experiences have been with nurses and IT. My worst experiences have been with daycare workers and low level gigs like retail.
 

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Any opinion on driving to a near by city thats about 30-40min away, not sure if driving there together in same car is a good idea.
This works in ur favor.

Which girl doesn't want to get out of her small town to unwind?

Even the most rigid of girls wants adventure.

Take her there in the evening and spend the night.

Drive in the same car. Lead the way.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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This works in ur favor.

Which girl doesn't want to get out of her small town to unwind?

Even the most rigid of girls wants adventure.

Take her there in the evening and spend the night.

Drive in the same car. Lead the way.
Date set for tomorrow at a decent pub 40min drive from home.
She was very enthusiastic, im starting to think she just want me for my body will see tomorrow.
 

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How was the sex with IT?
One of them I would call “pretty good” sex wise and one “ok”. I think what I like most of all about them and what stood out as positive after the fact is that the two IT chicks I dated never tried to drag me into their financial affairs.
 

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Date set for tomorrow at a decent pub 40min drive from home.
She was very enthusiastic, im starting to think she just want me for my body will see tomorrow.
Same car.

Don't drive even if only tipsy.

Stay the night, don't worry about her, she already expects it.
 

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Same car.

Don't drive even if only tipsy.

Stay the night, don't worry about her, she already expects it.
One car obviously only fun stuff can come out of that.


Not sure about spending the night there, will see how things goes.

Thanks for advice, i seriously think she would have been disappointed if coffee date.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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