redskinsfan92
Master Don Juan
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I told her 5'7" and that I'm tall enough to ride all the rollercoasters. What do y'all say to this question?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
No problem. Question sent.Yellow flag You should ask her weight.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
The best way to answer questions like this is to have fun with it.I told her 5'7" and that I'm tall enough to ride all the rollercoasters. What do y'all say to this question?
This is getting interesting... I like this chick. Challenge her... tell her to prove it.Hahaha
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
If 5’9 or shorter, add 3 inches to your actual height. Everyone else say 6’ or their actual height if between 6’ and 6’3. If taller than 6’3 just say 6’3.I told her 5'7" and that I'm tall enough to ride all the rollercoasters. What do y'all say to this question?
Lazar Angelov, the known steroid abuser?If you'd look anything close to Lazar Angelov, even 50% close ripped, she wouldn't be fcking around.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I have a gym.That just means she's not into you sexually, your SMV is your looks + what you do, looks can be ignored if you are an important bird, so neither gets her hot and wet for you and she had no plans on dating your ass. At this point you are online entertainment.
Now if you were ripped, she wouldn't be asking your height. Same thing, if you had good pics showing your SMV, something really social and hot, she wouldn't be asking those kinds of questions.
Why didn't you sign to a gym yet?
If you'd look anything close to Lazar Angelov, even 50% close ripped, she wouldn't be in position to fck around, and he is around your height.
SMV increases over time and does not happen overnight. I still try to date while working on it.That just means she's not into you sexually, your SMV is your looks + what you do, looks can be ignored if you are an important bird, so neither gets her hot and wet for you and she had no plans on dating your ass. At this point you are online entertainment.
Now if you were ripped, she wouldn't be asking your height. Same thing, if you had good pics showing your SMV, something really social and hot, she wouldn't be asking those kinds of questions.
Why didn't you sign to a gym yet?
If you'd look anything close to Lazar Angelov, even 50% close ripped, she wouldn't be in position to fck around, and he is around your height.
Gotta work on your body, get ripped. You keep dancing and ignoring this topic.She had low interest from the start.
Originally the conversation started like this then it devolved into that after I asked her out for coffee.Gotta work on your body, get ripped. You keep dancing and ignoring this topic.
Also, fcking around with her and other bull is same as telling her baby I got no other sht going on. When that conversation steers that way when she begins to qualify you, all you do is ignore her. She's not worth the effort.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.