"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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No Fap. No fap. Game over.

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Fapping is ok on a guy who gets puzzy on demand. For a sexless guy its about the worst thing you can do.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fapping everyday morning wood. No fap for a week.... Flatline placebo?
 

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One month minimal masturbation, ejac probably 4-5 times. Here are experiential results....

guy my age chats me up on behalf of his 45 year old mother. Both compliment my hair and skin. Sh3 basically wants to f*ck me.
If my reward for NoFap were cougar action, I think I'd stick with Chaturbate.
 

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I once did a true nofap for 6+ months before giving it up because my sex drive was negatively affecting my ability to work and sleep.
If you went 6 months with no wet dream, you have a much bigger problem. Here's a hint: start watching The Beverly Hillbillies episodes. :cool:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If my reward for NoFap were cougar action, I think I'd stick with Chaturbate.
Don't lie. You spend all your free time on here moaning about the female imperative.
 

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Don't lie. You spend all your free time on here moaning about the female imperative.
He loves it. His fantasy is getting drugged and hog tied. A balled up rag shoved in hus mouth qnd having carsi b bang him anally with a strap on.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bad taste imo.

Conidering his terrible condition and incredible intellectual potential, his will to succeed was indominatable. Many ppl would be just depressed or suicidal in his position.

btw. I read that he was physically abused by his second wife that took care of him (he was beaten by her).
Did she put him in the wheelchair?
 

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Nice, but most of that is definitely placebo dude. Based on this I should’ve been pulling girls like a champ back when I was 12 and had no idea what fapping was. The main thing no fap does is it brings down inflated beauty standards and makes you more likely to act on your instincts.
i dont know whether you have tried it or not, it is not placebo tried myself for more than 200 days and results are more than self explanatory like deep voice, lean muscle, more stamina, more motivation, stronger erections, respect and authority from same as well as opposite sex. Just give it a try no harm in doing that.
 

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Did you bang anyone?
This. x infinite!

Was out making out with a new plate. Its Tuesday night. Not quite skull ****in on a Monday but again, out getting baeeeees. Every chick no matter how hawtttt or cute is a plate and just practice. Act accordingly gentlemen.

The mark is top form SMV 18-23. Worst case scenario, 24. If she's not willing to push her chips All-in! During best (not worst) years, zero ****s given.
 

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I'm with @marmel75 on this. These no jerking off topics are ridiculous. You should be rubbing one out weekly if you are not ejaculating through sex weekly anyway. This helps keeps the pipes clean and working. Plus, rubbing one out each week can help prevent prostate cancer. Now if you are rubbing one out 2 -3 - 4 times every day, well, yea, stop.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm with @marmel75 on this. These no jerking off topics are ridiculous. You should be rubbing one out weekly if you are not ejaculating through sex weekly anyway. This helps keeps the pipes clean and working. Plus, rubbing one out each week can help prevent prostate cancer. Now if you are rubbing one out 2 -3 - 4 times every day, well, yea, stop.
For chronic masturbators a few years of no fap should be done this is my opinion

For the others that do it every couple times a month are fine. Your semen contains zinc and calcium and phosphorus you are losing vital nutrients when you masturbate to much
 

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i dont know whether you have tried it or not, it is not placebo tried myself for more than 200 days and results are more than self explanatory like deep voice, lean muscle, more stamina, more motivation, stronger erections, respect and authority from same as well as opposite sex. Just give it a try no harm in doing that.
I have and found none of those effects except for the stronger erections.
 

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This. x infinite!

Was out making out with a new plate. Its Tuesday night. Not quite skull ****in on a Monday but again, out getting baeeeees. Every chick no matter how hawtttt or cute is a plate and just practice. Act accordingly gentlemen.

The mark is top form SMV 18-23. Worst case scenario, 24. If she's not willing to push her chips All-in! During best (not worst) years, zero ****s given.
Who cares whether its her best years if she’ll never be anything more than a plate?
 

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For chronic masturbators a few years of no fap should be done this is my opinion

For the others that do it every couple times a month are fine. Your semen contains zinc and calcium and phosphorus you are losing vital nutrients when you masturbate to much
Here's the kicker. They are depressed because they are lonely, so they jerkoff. Then, after weeks, months, years of no female partners they jerkoff 2, 3, 4 times a day. This becomes a cycle and they are even more depressed. If you ain't fvcking, you need ejaculate once a week. Anything more than moderation is asking for some many issues to arise. prostatitis, urethritis, cuts on the penis, desensitization and of course, different levels of masturbation.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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