"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why do so many people say dating is easier for men at 28-40?

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More bullcrap to reinforce your loser mentalities.

I'm often mistaken for Armenian, and have the same complexion as you. Ever heard of tall, dark, and handsome? The most beautiful women in the world desire this type of complexion typically from the former Soviet Union, Russian-speaking countries today (including Armenia), where most of the 9s and 10s of the world come from.

I operate at every disadvantage you could conceive : girls who are 9-10s, 20+ years my junior, not comparable statuses to their ex bfs whom are celebs/ball-players/hedge fund managers, a social circle nowhere in comparison to theirs, no social media ... YET I still dominate.

It's call game. And both of you have none.

"Game" boils down to the image you portray. Your game paints you as desperado losers. Mine, the "god" frame, all encompassing, the limitless arena where every chick wants to seemly join. I didn't start here; I had to work hard to get here and remain steadfast to whom I owned I was ... to plow through a reality that wished to tell me a different story. I transcended because my mental Paradigms were greater than my Reality, until Reality acquiesced to its knees.

I don't feel sorry for you as you create your reality ... you either RISE or sit in your misery. But you guys will never (<==) rise, as to do that you would need the Paradigms of a Winner. And winners don't whine; they DO something about it--BUT most importantly ... Winners do not avoid rejection or challenge, rather they choose to embrace it.
I see it alot from a few member i usuasly dont bother opening the thread

Way too much whinning, complaining and
Excuses.


Need to roll with the punches and do something about it.

Loser mentality.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You are strongly implying to say that it's not true. You don't always have to verbalize something to make a point, like it appears you are doing here./QUOTE]
I was trying to verbalize it to explain it to you. Because if you think I'm implying that it isn't true, you aren't even close to understanding what I was trying to say. No offense intended.

Nobody is saying a red pill is difficult to swallow.
People here and in the manosphere say that all the time. Anyone who hasn't seen it isn't reading the forum very thoroughly.
 

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Thats the point. Women say they want a man who moves like jesus but they wont desire him.

But I see couples in church. I also have people in my family who have met their SOs in church and have gone on to have productive families with children. But my cousins are Chad and Tyrone, maybe that is why it worked for them.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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But I see couples in church. I also have people in my family who have met their SOs in church and have gone on to have productive families with children. But my cousins are Chad and Tyrone, maybe that is why it worked for them.
They mustve had swag.
 

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Some people need 1on1 coaching, others can just play and learn music on their own.
If it's not working, try something new. There's knowledge, and then there's experience.

I have to agree, I don't even try now there's more women that hit on me.
It's because once you've had the experience with women, you are just naturally different in everything.
I might've had a lot of money and a great job at 25.
But at 34 I have experience in life and women, which is what makes attraction happen.

I also agree, the old material is useful and also not useful.
 
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