"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How do you be a friend to a female you’re attracted to without becoming a beta friendzone orbiter or a puzzy little friendzoned bytch?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How do you guys feel about hanging with attractive female friends that you're not banging? Can it work for me or will I just come off as a loser?
Can I go to the bars with them, go to social events and pick up their friends/go meet new girls with them as my social circle?
#BlueBalls

#OrbiterGame
 

glass half full

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I don't see why a guy can't have friendships with women...not like besties, but to hang out with. Maybe it's my age...I figure that will work well for me, as I'm looking to start my new life soon.

Many women around my age seem to feel the same about relationships, so I think it can work. To build a social circle with both sexes. But to be more selective than in the past, that's the key. Do what you've learned! If it ain't good for you, step away.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I just want a social circle honestly. I'm already banging other b*tches but I need to bang more lol
Two Strikes Rule and Brad Pitt/Channing Tatum Rule will help me not get jerked around by women as well. Less really is more when it comes to texting
You say you look like a cross between Brad Pitt and Channing Tatum. You don't need any game.
 

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I just want a social circle honestly. I'm already banging other b*tches but I need to bang more lol
Same as bigdave17. Penetrate easier targets in their group. Some of the girls will be less big headed and more likely to bypass some of their social points system bullshyt.
 

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You say you look like a cross between Brad Pitt and Channing Tatum. You don't need any game.
I wish I looked like them lol. I mean the Brad Pitt rule to gauge interest. As in "If Brad Pitt was texting her, what would this girl do?"
I would love to looksmax to that point though, where you only need a splash of Game
 

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Same as bigdave17. Penetrate easier targets in their group. Some of the girls will be less big headed and more likely to bypass some of their social points system bullshyt.
Big Dave?
And yeah totally. Some girls are so shallow though
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Numbers game can help with that I'd imagine
I was just confused what this had to do with Big Dave lol
I told him instead of trying to get those hardened and political 8,9 and 10s. To fvck their slightly less attractive but same group 6s and 7s. It will get him fvcking in that group and female competition will kick in.
 

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"Man I'd take that b!tch to the moon if it's raise my SMV." - AMS

Lol 8:10

 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Big Dave?
And yeah totally. Some girls are so shallow though
Agreed but, if society and blue pill cucks were feeding you the currency of attention and blowing up your ego into the stratosphere as if to suggest your **** don't stink, you would be entitled too.

What thry fail to realise is that, new girls are turning 18 everyday.
 

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They serve a purpose. As in, thry put out and or they put me onto thrir hawt young friends. Otherwise I next her.
All I want is to get on their young hot friends and have friends while I'm at the bar. Then I can Mystery Method it up. I'm going for it!
 

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All I want is to get on their young hot friends and have friends while I'm at the bar. Then I can Mystery Method it up. I'm going for it!
I'm a rsd fan boy though, i think its fallen off since the julien **** storm. Its slipping with rsd luke social circle rubbish or female instructors lol.

Mystery is GOAT status. MM is dated but the essence of this is great. Indicator of interest, stack esculation after 3. 3sec rule. Knock princess off her pedestal with backhanded compliment/neg, psychology, behaviorism, dhv, story telling, and the importance of compliance as well as being a challenge.

Pretend to be status when fat and parading around women is try hard. There's ways of using social media but its not to the way you want in contrast to pickup.


Make friends. Especially as you get older, people fall off, get married or have kids etc. Maje friends but vet hard as ****kkk. A lot of people suck. I spent a lot of time developing a high value social circle. It dissolves as do rotations. Its why you must stay on the grind.
 

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I wish I looked like them lol. I mean the Brad Pitt rule to gauge interest. As in "If Brad Pitt was texting her, what would this girl do?"
I would love to looksmax to that point though, where you only need a slash of Game
Yes, wouldn't we all...Lol
 

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This just reeks of the low value orbiter mindset. You are trying to sneak your way into their panties. You come up with all of these excuses and rationalizations: I need friends, everyone's leaving me, it looks bad if I don't have hot female friends, blah blah blah. This is the typical weasely, passive-aggressive, dishonest way of trying to get laid. These guys think if they just "hang around," she'll "slip up" by getting super drunk or otherwise drop her guard and you'll get laid. Guys invest months, even years with this strategy until they give up with nothing to show for it.

Be honest with yourself and save yourself a lot of time and an enormous amount of frustration. Just be straight up with them and go for actual dates (hanging out 1 on 1). If she's down great, if not, you've just saved yourself dozens, hundreds or thousands of hours waiting for her to slip up so you can get laid.

Even if she does slip up and gets drunk while you're waiting hanging out with her one on one at a party, you are just begging for a date rape charge.

How do you guys feel about hanging with attractive female friends that you're not banging?

And before someone asks the obligatory question, if I were given the chance, yes I would fvck them. But I'm also ok with having them as friends and having them as a social circle jumping point so that I can go out and fvck other b*tches.(If that even is possible without reducing my SMV to the depths of hell.)
Yeah, exactly as I stated: you are lying to yourself and to us. You claim you are ok just being friends with attractive women, yet you say you want to fvck them. Obviously. If you want to fvck them, you're NOT ok just being friends with them. That's why you want to hang with them as "friends." You're friendly enough to be trusted but you're waiting for your chance when she's drunk or high or otherwise compromised when the bar closes or in the wee hours of a party.

If you were actually good looking, you wouldn't have to resort to these sneaky orbiter, take advantage of her when she's wasted game.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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