You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Physically?Nah, most men just ain't attractive enough to have options s
With this I agree 100%. I guess I am just refining my "throw away muscle"I'd throw away a lousy woman the same way I'd throw away an old masturbation sock. Never look back nor fish it out of the trash for any reason.
Not just looks.....Physically?
We're talking about a broad that I never even had sex with, she came over at my place after heavy sexual flirt over the phone and then she started acting funny. I almost completely forgot about her in a week's time after she stopped talking, but this facker keeps watching my stories in IG to this day, likes my posts LOL that's why it kept bugging me. It's like a little bug that keeps putting itself in front of you time and time and time again when her actions seem to tell you sth else. So I said yeah fack it, shoot her a text, see what happens. Sent the text, she saw it, didn't answer, now she's off even if she wrote first.I kind of get what you're saying, OP, but you must always approach these things with the certainty that you're okay with it, and with all outcomes. If you prefer an ironclad rejection to a soft next then go ahead and solicit one, maybe you'll get it. Women aren't very good at rejecting directly. They won't be honest about other plates, and since they hate being scorned they don't always find it easy to tell a guy why he's not right. (Exception, if she NEEDS him to get angry so she can blame him, she might serve up a few faults.) But if it makes you feel better than go ahead and do it, as long as you're comfortable with any consequence.
Where you lost me is the "sit and wait" part. C'mon man, that's DJ 101, do not sit and stew over someone else's prerogative. Not saying you can't feel bad about a breakup, but waiting for her to reach out or whatever, that's a big waste of time. Either move on, or if you must, reach out and get whatever answer you're wanting.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It's one of those you are right but you are wrong. Women by mature are choosers. By large women choose, even the fat once choose, even ugly once choose, even old once choose. It's the way it is man. Even in the wild, women of different species, for example pigeons, choose.Nah, most men just ain't attractive enough to have options but don't put all men in that category. Only lower ranking males don't have options
Correct, women are the choosers, crazy that lots of men in 2019 still dont get that concept.It's one of those you are right but you are wrong. Women by mature are choosers. By large women choose, even the fat once choose, even ugly once choose, even old once choose. It's the way it is man. Even in the wild, women of different species, for example pigeons, choose.
Of course, a man can be a 666, 6 pack abs, 6 figure salary, 6 foot tall, then he will be chosen ----- not.......... choose. Al thought it's possible with those characteristics to think you are choosing, 100%.