"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Women logic:

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i think accussations are worse than rape because if you get raped often no one will know, if you get accussed, your whole city will know
 

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What I see running rampant in society these days is that there's a reflex to become OUTRAGED, followed by a RUSH to judgment without much time given to receive, research, and consider ALL the facts.

In cases like this, EMOTION eclipses LOGIC and usually whoever the accused person is---their life really does become tainted by just the accusation of being accused of something...(whether it's ever actually proven or not).

V.U.
 

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I’ve never thought as many women were being raped or have been raped as we are led to believe. Does rape happen? Of course. But it’s not 1 out of 3 women like we are led to believe. I think most confuse regret with rape and that stretches the statistic. Rape is as rare as dying in a plane.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I’ve never thought as many women were being raped or have been raped as we are led to believe. Does rape happen? Of course. But it’s not 1 out of 3 women like we are led to believe. I think most confuse regret with rape and that stretches the statistic. Rape is as rare as dying in a plane.
Not too sure about that dude. Rape is very common in the Eastern European countries as well as many hoods in the US. They don't report it due to fear from the aftermath, or they are nobodies and the cops don't care. There's also the peer pressure issue too.
 

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Not too sure about that dude. Rape is very common in the Eastern European countries as well as many hoods in the US. They don't report it due to fear from the aftermath, or they are nobodies and the cops don't care. There's also the peer pressure issue too.
Well I mean yeah, ****hole stuff happens in ****hole areas, there’s no disputing that. I just find it hard to believe that most middle class and upper middle class American women have been raped unless they’re hanging out willingly in those hoods where they shouldn’t be.
 

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Well I mean yeah, ****hole stuff happens in ****hole areas, there’s no disputing that. I just find it hard to believe that most middle class and upper middle class American women have been raped unless they’re hanging out willingly in those hoods where they shouldn’t be.
I'm confused why rape occuring in middle and upper class America is different than women getting raped in lower income areas that may have more needy people.

It's all rape
 

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Well I mean yeah, ****hole stuff happens in ****hole areas, there’s no disputing that. I just find it hard to believe that most middle class and upper middle class American women have been raped unless they’re hanging out willingly in those hoods where they shouldn’t be.
You'd be surprised how many middle class teens and young adults want to be hood or OG and get a taste of that life. When I walk through downtown Bridgeport, you can spot a lady (or man) who doesn't belong there. During the day, it should be fine, but at night, either would be abused.

However, for amusement, here are two crackheads who screw each other and are fighting. Grab some popcorn.

 

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I'm confused why rape occuring in middle and upper class America is different than women getting raped in lower income areas that may have more needy people.

It's all rape
My point is crime happens in certain areas but that doesn’t mean there aren’t areas where there’s hardly any crime at all.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My point is crime happens in certain areas but that doesn’t mean there aren’t areas where there’s hardly any crime at all.
Ah. I totally missed that, you are correct
 
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