Should I cancel this date?

[jboyd5]

First date went really good, she texted right after saying how much fun it was and how we need to do it again.

She took a little while to reply when I was setting up the next date and did some back and forth after she texted back.

Texted her today to reschedule 30 minutes later on the meet up around 2 and no response yet.

Feeling like canceling the date all around because I am annoyed and if she wanted to actually go on another date shed respond quickly.

How should I play this out? Cancel or not?

 

[RickTheToad]

Shoulda waited until she texted you that she had good time. A man should never do that first. Anyways, go, but make sure you're kinoing her and having a good time for both.

 

[jboyd5]

Shoulda waited until she texted you that she had good time. A man should never do that first. Anyways, go, but make sure you're kinoing her and having a good time for both.

I did wait until she did that. Waited two days, should of added that in there. We were making out the whole way back as we were walking.

 

[Atom Smasher]

You told her how the "movie" ends. When a woman thinks she has you hook, line and sinker, it's game over. You need to seem ambivalent for a while.

 

[jboyd5]

You told her how the "movie" ends. When a woman thinks she has you hook, line and sinker, it's game over. You need to seem ambivalent for a while.

I like that. How would you handle the situation at this point?

 

[Glassguy]

If she doesnt respond back then you find another date.

If she still shows up and gets p!ssed you tell her to respond back to you next time.

 

[jboyd5]

If she doesnt respond back then you find another date.

If she still shows up and gets p!ssed you tell her to respond back to you next time.

What I was looking for thanks man

 

[Glassguy]

What I was looking for thanks man

Dont sweat her. If she isnt responding back then she isnt going to show up.

You owe her nothing.

 

[Glassguy]

And dont initiate any more contact with her. If she shows back up invite her to your place only. No dates until she has earned it.

 

[RickTheToad]

I did wait until she did that. Waited two days, should of added that in there. We were making out the whole way back as we were walking.

ITF, if you've not heard back, and you want to check in wait a week or so. Let the experience marinate in her mind a bit. Appear to have other options; even if you don't.

 

[Glassguy]

If a woman just drops off the face of the earth, it does no good to hit her back up later on.

You only show that you're vulnerable and dont have options, on top of having no self respect and standards.

If they disappear, I say let them stay gone. There are too many women out there to put up with this crap from one.

At best case you hit her up and she does it to you again after a date or two.

No thanks

 

[sosousage]

you need a definitive message


"no sex no meet"

 

[sazc]

First date went really good, she texted right after saying how much fun it was and how we need to do it again.

She took a little while to reply when I was setting up the next date and did some back and forth after she texted back.

Texted her today to reschedule 30 minutes later on the meet up around 2 and no response yet.

Feeling like canceling the date all around because I am annoyed and if she wanted to actually go on another date shed respond quickly.

How should I play this out? Cancel or not?

so what happened?

 

[jboyd5]

so what happened?

Never got back to me so I didnt go, stayed in the dorm with the boys and played poker

 

[Glassguy]

Never got back to me so I didnt go, stayed in the dorm with the boys and played poker

She thinks that she found a better option. Remember that if she ever reaches out.

I don't deal with flakes and ghosts. There are too many hot and available women out there to condone this behavior.

 

[jboyd5]

She thinks that she found a better option. Remember that if she ever reaches out.

I don't deal with flakes and ghosts. There are too many hot and available women out there to condone this behavior.

hah already got a better girl on my mind anyways. 30k people on this campus not about to go back to one girl