mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
War on men. BF or hubby is an easy target cause he loves her.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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I cut out the war on men part. This has been going on for eternity. Greek tragedies and ancient plays depict it. Plato and Aristotle talked about.
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I don’t see it as a risk. Getting married, well as long as I’m protected I don’t see a problem.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Right its victim mindset. Still a man needs to be truthful about who he got involved with.
I'm guessing u r taking the route that women will act on their biological needs 1st as compared to those of society or even love/marriage.
If so then yes.
This shouldn't shock many here but it does.
It is how nature makes sure that only the best DNA is advanced for the survival of the species.
If so then yes.
This shouldn't shock many here but it does.
It is how nature makes sure that only the best DNA is advanced for the survival of the species.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Yeah that was really dumb. If you can’t see it then just move on.
Experienced men have seen it everywhere. It doesn’t bother me but it is quite observable. Notice that AJ didn’t dispute it.
Only you Mr. Sarge. Married men and LTRs are quite aware. But then you’ve most likely never been married or long term. Cool.
You’ve got it all figured out. You might want to write a book or something.
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I guess this is not real for some. They still have hope for the unicorn and heavenly bliss like in mommy’s arms.
Perhaps it's best to understand why many men have been on the losing side and why women has been getting better at it.
Women's chromosome X always has a twin to combine, your daughter for example inherits her "X" from her mother + her mother's mother + from ur mother.
As such women can only get better and better over time.
Whilst you get ur maleness from the Y chromosome and the sad fact is it doesn't combine as it's always solitary - by not combining it degrades over time.
Our ancient forefathers had a more "advanced" Y chromosome as compared to us now which is why there's a proliferation of "soft" men now as compared to ancient times.
Not sure if I'm making sense to any here but I'm trying to put this in from an engineering (my educational background) perspective for better understanding to those that's in the intellectual bracket.
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Sure making sense to me. I’ve read about it. The idea is that when all men or at least most men finally got access to women they were able to procreate.
This degraded the Y chromosome in linear DNA as men who would never of procreated in the past are now able to do so.
Hard pill to swallow for many men.
lamath
Master Don Juan
Seriously you are lacking in real life experience if you have never seen it.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
lamath
Master Don Juan
Red Queen book explain it very well
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You can see this truth even during the Roman Empire with Centurian Heraclitus’s quote:
“Out of every one hundred men(they send me), ten shouldn't even be there, eighty are just targets, nine are the real fighters, and we are lucky to have them, for they make the battle. Ah, but the one, one is a warrior, and he will bring the others back.”
Heraclitus
“Out of every one hundred men(they send me), ten shouldn't even be there, eighty are just targets, nine are the real fighters, and we are lucky to have them, for they make the battle. Ah, but the one, one is a warrior, and he will bring the others back.”
Heraclitus
lamath
Master Don Juan
Damm i remember reading this somewhere a Robert Greene book maybe.
lamath
Master Don Juan
Im too lazy here is a link
It is a very good book but a bit heavy
There is a section about the degradation of DNA
https://www.amazon.com/Red-Queen-Ev...549944913&sr=1-1&keywords=red+queen+evolution
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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It’s by Matt Ridley. It’s a very contentious book. I will let Lamath talk about it. I like the section on why a woman gives an advantage to a lover to conceive a child over her own husband.
Another reason why almost 20% of the people you see walking around...their father is not who they think it is.
Breaking the DNA chain and following the blood groups pulled back the veil on many things.
Well I'm pretty certain a few of those are my offspring's walking around with a good "daddy" in tow.
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So yes a woman will default to her biology (DNA) over religion, marriage, love or any male moral code.
Love has absolutely nothing to do with. A woman can “love” you and still have another man’s child.
What’s even more amazing is that women are so in tune with this that they will actually cover for each other. Even their own mothers will cover for her daughter’s infidelity.
This is why listening to women, for the most part, on these forums will stick a man soundly in his own illusions. In some cases permanently.
Love has absolutely nothing to do with. A woman can “love” you and still have another man’s child.
What’s even more amazing is that women are so in tune with this that they will actually cover for each other. Even their own mothers will cover for her daughter’s infidelity.
This is why listening to women, for the most part, on these forums will stick a man soundly in his own illusions. In some cases permanently.
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LMAO god knows how many I have acroos the globe. Rarely, if ever, used protection and never caught a damn thing.
lamath
Master Don Juan
Go ahead man im lazy af
But id like to say that lots of stuff in there are not contentious but fact.
What i got out of this book is Sexual selection > Natural selection and thats why u see butt ugly bird with bright featherseven if it makes them a better pray to predator.
Also Individual > species this makes me think that as a species we are doomed to extinction.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.