mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
War on men. BF or hubby is an easy target cause he loves her.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Ranger
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I cut out the war on men part. This has been going on for eternity. Greek tragedies and ancient plays depict it. Plato and Aristotle talked about.
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I don’t see it as a risk. Getting married, well as long as I’m protected I don’t see a problem.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Right its victim mindset. Still a man needs to be truthful about who he got involved with.
I'm guessing u r taking the route that women will act on their biological needs 1st as compared to those of society or even love/marriage.
If so then yes.
This shouldn't shock many here but it does.
It is how nature makes sure that only the best DNA is advanced for the survival of the species.
If so then yes.
This shouldn't shock many here but it does.
It is how nature makes sure that only the best DNA is advanced for the survival of the species.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Yeah that was really dumb. If you can’t see it then just move on.
Experienced men have seen it everywhere. It doesn’t bother me but it is quite observable. Notice that AJ didn’t dispute it.
Only you Mr. Sarge. Married men and LTRs are quite aware. But then you’ve most likely never been married or long term. Cool.
You’ve got it all figured out. You might want to write a book or something.
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I guess this is not real for some. They still have hope for the unicorn and heavenly bliss like in mommy’s arms.
Perhaps it's best to understand why many men have been on the losing side and why women has been getting better at it.
Women's chromosome X always has a twin to combine, your daughter for example inherits her "X" from her mother + her mother's mother + from ur mother.
As such women can only get better and better over time.
Whilst you get ur maleness from the Y chromosome and the sad fact is it doesn't combine as it's always solitary - by not combining it degrades over time.
Our ancient forefathers had a more "advanced" Y chromosome as compared to us now which is why there's a proliferation of "soft" men now as compared to ancient times.
Not sure if I'm making sense to any here but I'm trying to put this in from an engineering (my educational background) perspective for better understanding to those that's in the intellectual bracket.
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Sure making sense to me. I’ve read about it. The idea is that when all men or at least most men finally got access to women they were able to procreate.
This degraded the Y chromosome in linear DNA as men who would never of procreated in the past are now able to do so.
Hard pill to swallow for many men.
lamath
Master Don Juan
Seriously you are lacking in real life experience if you have never seen it.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
lamath
Master Don Juan
Red Queen book explain it very well
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You can see this truth even during the Roman Empire with Centurian Heraclitus’s quote:
“Out of every one hundred men(they send me), ten shouldn't even be there, eighty are just targets, nine are the real fighters, and we are lucky to have them, for they make the battle. Ah, but the one, one is a warrior, and he will bring the others back.”
Heraclitus
“Out of every one hundred men(they send me), ten shouldn't even be there, eighty are just targets, nine are the real fighters, and we are lucky to have them, for they make the battle. Ah, but the one, one is a warrior, and he will bring the others back.”
Heraclitus
lamath
Master Don Juan
Damm i remember reading this somewhere a Robert Greene book maybe.
lamath
Master Don Juan
Im too lazy here is a link
It is a very good book but a bit heavy
There is a section about the degradation of DNA
https://www.amazon.com/Red-Queen-Ev...549944913&sr=1-1&keywords=red+queen+evolution
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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It’s by Matt Ridley. It’s a very contentious book. I will let Lamath talk about it. I like the section on why a woman gives an advantage to a lover to conceive a child over her own husband.
Another reason why almost 20% of the people you see walking around...their father is not who they think it is.
Breaking the DNA chain and following the blood groups pulled back the veil on many things.
Well I'm pretty certain a few of those are my offspring's walking around with a good "daddy" in tow.
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So yes a woman will default to her biology (DNA) over religion, marriage, love or any male moral code.
Love has absolutely nothing to do with. A woman can “love” you and still have another man’s child.
What’s even more amazing is that women are so in tune with this that they will actually cover for each other. Even their own mothers will cover for her daughter’s infidelity.
This is why listening to women, for the most part, on these forums will stick a man soundly in his own illusions. In some cases permanently.
Love has absolutely nothing to do with. A woman can “love” you and still have another man’s child.
What’s even more amazing is that women are so in tune with this that they will actually cover for each other. Even their own mothers will cover for her daughter’s infidelity.
This is why listening to women, for the most part, on these forums will stick a man soundly in his own illusions. In some cases permanently.
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LMAO god knows how many I have acroos the globe. Rarely, if ever, used protection and never caught a damn thing.
lamath
Master Don Juan
Go ahead man im lazy af
But id like to say that lots of stuff in there are not contentious but fact.
What i got out of this book is Sexual selection > Natural selection and thats why u see butt ugly bird with bright featherseven if it makes them a better pray to predator.
Also Individual > species this makes me think that as a species we are doomed to extinction.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.