What’s the policy when under the influence? What the hell do I do?

[lamath]

@nicksaiz65 my guess, as to why she was essentially sexually leading you on, is that she knew when she gave you a little bit of sexual attention you were going to reciprocate with a lot of attention.

Think about it, a few packs on the cheeks from her would probably keep your attention focused her direction for the entire night. when she didn't want your attention she wouldn't initiate like that. When she did want your attention she would initiate like that.

depending on her mood that evening and whether or not there was another man she was interested in she would decide whether or not to lead you on.

Telling you this matters me uncomfortable because it's not a nice thing to say to someone and I don't know if I am correct. But that is the only reason I can think of that she would throw a little sexuality your way, and only sometimes.

That's my best guess.

did she ever like you? Did she ever see any value in you? She probably did, but not enough to make you her man permanently. I'm sure on many levels you became a source of comfort and male friendship

If she would have been High IL i dont think she would be that way.


At that age she prob does not handle well being drunk or stone prob the cause of this problem.
Be happy it did not get farther.

 

[nicksaiz65]

If she would have been High IL i dont think she would be that way.


At that age she prob does not handle well being drunk or stone prob the cause of this problem.
Be happy it did not get farther.

It’s honestly a blessing in disguise. That’s God looking out for me. Can you imagine if I had fvcked her? She’d be crying out rape and I’d probably be incarcerated right now.

 

[lamath]

It’s honestly a blessing in disguise. That’s God looking out for me. Can you imagine if I had fvcked her? She’d be crying out rape and I’d probably be incarcerated right now.

Yep, this **** can be hard on a guy self esteem and make him feel quilty.

Dont let it bother you, i dont think you did anything wrong.
Just be careful next time a similar situation occurs

 

[nicksaiz65]

Also, this reminds me of a question I had for you guys. So we all know mixed signals means Low Interest. Hypothetically, let’s say a girl is giving you mixed signals like that and therefore has a Low Interest in you. Interest levels can be raised, but is it worth it to try and raise them that case? Or should you just drop it?

I ask this because AMS said something to the effect of if you’re only chasing after high interest level girls, you’re leaving a lot of ass on the table. I guess 2 Strikes would be an effective way to deal with this?

This question could Lowkey be its own thread

 

[nicksaiz65]

Yep, this **** can be hard on a guy self esteem and make him feel quilty.

Dont let it bother you, i dont think you did anything wrong.
Just be careful next time a similar situation occurs

I don’t think I did anything wrong either after talking to you guys. We’ll see if she ever comes around. But think about it like this. Now I have the knowledge not to fvck around with drunk girls unless I’ve fvcked them before in this Me Too era.

I’d rather learn this lesson sooner than later. Better to learn it now than with some entitled slut who throws out a false rape charge. That would most definitely ruin my life and I just can’t have that. I hope I can get this friendship back, but I still learned a very valuable lesson.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Oh and @sazc I appreciate it but don’t worry about hurting my feelings. I’d rather have the raw, uncut truth. The whole reason the Blue Pill sucks is because they sugarcoat stuff and lie to us. If I hear the whole painful truth, that’s the fastest way to get better imo