What’s the policy when under the influence? What the hell do I do?

[sazc]

I’m not convinced. Single means not married. It’s hard to fuk other guys where they think she’s a sweet “good girl” and she’s gaming them when you have hickies on your tits. LMAO

Ur so out of touch and out of your league on this one.

 

[sazc]

That’s why I don’t give people hickies lol. But I was drunk and feeling wild. Y’know, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with kissing a girl while drunk. This would have been no issue had I just made out with her. So if we’re drunk, I’ll make out with a girl. But sex is a no-go.

Moving forward, it's best to leave all clothes on if you are going to make out with a drunk chick, esp at your age.

You are working against the tide of pump and dump dudes. If you're Chad they will sober up and wait (and hope) to see if you'll want more from them, but they won't cry "disrespect' and 'taken advantage of!'.

If you're not Chad, then they wake up and assume you're intention was to pump and dump, and they get butthurt and start whining about being disrespected and taken advantage of. This IS in an effort to not feel like a slut.

 

[Ranger]

Ur so out of touch and out of your league on this one.

LMAO you dream. There’s a whole lot of duh’s in your post. She had enough capacity to prevent Intercourse. Of course she feels like a slvt. It’s a total shift of responsibility to the man.

You just haven’t fukked enough girls yet sazc.

 

[marmel75]

Sounds reasonable. Incidentally, I saw her today walking around campus after I went to class. She smiled and said hi but kept it moving after that. So there's not much I can really do about this. I'm just gonna put the focus back on improving myself and fighting against life. I'm not gonna blow up her phone and beg like an AFC. I guess this friendship is over until she reaches out to me. Which is kinda sad, because we got along really well.

In the event that she doesn't ever reach back out to me, I still made out with and hooked up with a hot girl that I liked. So I suppose that's improvement... in a weird kind of way? Lol. I really need to talk to more women. If I'm being real with myself, I need more friends too. My friend groups are always so damn small.

Keep your friend groups small...expand your acquantainces.

You'll find in the end that the more people you consider "friends" the more of them that aren't really your friends and are only there when times are good.

I intentionally keep my friend groups small because I want to know if I'm out somewhere with them and some sh!t goes down I'm not going to have to wonder if they are gonna leave me there to deal with it alone and bounce.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Moving forward, it's best to leave all clothes on if you are going to make out with a drunk chick, esp at your age.

You are working against the tide of pump and dump dudes. If you're Chad they will sober up and wait (and hope) to see if you'll want more from them, but they won't cry "disrespect' and 'taken advantage of!'.

If you're not Chad, then they wake up and assume you're intention was to pump and dump, and they get butthurt and start whining about being disrespected and taken advantage of. This IS in an effort to not feel like a slut.

It certainly feels like it.

I’m gonna let her cool down a bit like you said before reaching out again. I think a week should be sufficient.

In the meantime, I need to keep working on improving my life and becoming Chad. I feel like I should be able to avoid situations like this with the knowledge I have now from you guys.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Keep your friend groups small...expand your acquantainces.

You'll find in the end that the more people you consider "friends" the more of them that aren't really your friends and are only there when times are good.

I intentionally keep my friend groups small because I want to know if I'm out somewhere with them and some sh!t goes down I'm not going to have to wonder if they are gonna leave me there to deal with it alone and bounce.

Yup. I’ve always had just a handful of really close friends. I’ve been working on expanding my social circle as part of networking. But having just a few close friends is nice

 

[sazc]

Be very careful. The age group you are in means immaturity prevails. YOLO is the culture, and your age group yolos without contemplating consequences.

Be different. I know that kinda sucks to hear, but better to force maturity on yourself rather than have serious consequences because of someone else's immaturity and lack of foresight.

 

[backseatjuan]

Look what I find.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Look what I find.

I love his channel... I swear he has a video for everything

 

[nicksaiz65]

I talked to my Chad friend and he agreed 100% with what you guys said. I did nothing wrong and I need to just let her cool off. Man, this is a great community. I love you guys.

 

[Ranger]

I talked to my Chad friend and he agreed 100% with what you guys said. I did nothing wrong and I need to just let her cool off. Man, this is a great community. I love you guys.

Damn right you didn’t.

 

[sazc]

Damn right you didn’t.

Oh... Let's see... But your advice was to pursue her and make sure you detailed the evenings events in ALL the graphic detail possible.... Right?!

Tell her you both had a great time. No intercourse though. But she enjoyed the kissing and was pleasuring herself. Tell her the truth. The truth will be solid and it will come off as genuine.

Solid bvllchit, b/c that's what you dish. Know your place

 

[Ranger]

Oh... Let's see... But your advice was to pursue her and make sure you detailed the evenings events in ALL the graphic detail possible.... Right?!


Solid bvllchit, b/c that's what you dish. Know your place

Where does it say pursue? Lol
Basically tell her the truth. I guess you didn’t like that part. Wanted to protect her from her own actions.
Just can’t help yourself I see. Youre like a demented stalker with foam at the corners of your mouth.
Plus you can’t admit she had enough of her faculties to stop him from having intercourse with her. Yep. Too drunk. Lol

 

[nicksaiz65]

Where does it say pursue? Lol
Basically tell her the truth. I guess you didn’t like that part. Wanted to protect her from her own actions.
Just can’t help yourself I see. Youre like a demented stalker with foam at the corners of your mouth.
Plus you can’t admit she had enough of her faculties to stop him from having intercourse with her. Yep. Too drunk. Lol

I mentioned the part about how you said don’t have drunk sex with a girl that you haven’t fvcked before to my Chad friend. He nodded and said “that’s how you gotta do it bro.”

 

[Ranger]

I mentioned the part about how you said don’t have drunk sex with a girl that you haven’t fvcked before to my Chad friend. He nodded and said “that’s how you gotta do it bro.”

It is very dangerous nick. No matter how much you ache for her. Trust me, I know what that feels like. It’s hard to turn that pvssy down but the rest of your life is more important.
She knew what she was doing despite having too much to drink.
I remember one I just tossed into my bed because she was drunk. Covered her up and let her sleep. That was some fine a$$ too. I sleep naked but I left her clothes on. She asked if something happened and I told her just some kissing and rubbing up against each other.

 

[nicksaiz65]

It is very dangerous nick. No matter how much you ache for her. Trust me, I know what that feels like. It’s hard to turn that pvssy down but the rest of your life is more important.
She knew what she was doing despite having too much to drink.
I remember one I just tossed into my bed because she was drunk. Covered her up and let her sleep. That was some fine a$$ too. I sleep naked but I left her clothes on. She asked if something happened and I told her just some kissing and rubbing up against each other.

That’s the Don Juan way to handle it. Hurts but it’s true. I never thought about this before. Did you end up fvcking her after the fact, out of curiosity?

 

[Ranger]

That’s the Don Juan way to handle it. Hurts but it’s true. I never thought about this before. Did you end up fvcking her after the fact, out of curiosity?

I don’t think so. I was seeing another woman as well. But I doubt that I did.

 

[nicksaiz65]

I don’t think so. I was seeing another woman as well. But I doubt that I did.

As long as we’re getting laid and moving forward on our purpose I’m happy! Better than getting a rape accusation haha

 

[backseatjuan]

Whatever, you didn't heed any of the advice. **** gonna happen, not with police tho. She gonna run her mouth around the college and every girl gonna know this sh1t. Which means your sex life there is potentially ruined.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Whatever, you didn't heed any of the advice. **** gonna happen, not with police tho. She gonna run her mouth around the college and every girl gonna know this sh1t. Which means your sex life there is potentially ruined.

What do you mean bro? I did what you guys said. I even got the tape recorder like you mentioned