MatureDJ
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Well, her texting you is a sign of interest. Perhaps she had reviewed her options and decided that you have some value.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Went to a meetup, asked a lady out, interesting response
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
RickTheToad
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That was before we did the she's available any day, then she's available never at night. Either she's playing a game or low interest. No problem. Another time then.
She's been silent since then. I thought this one would be better as she's not on OLD. Nope.
MatureDJ
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THIS!
RickTheToad
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That was prior to when I got her number. She reached out to me and I asked her what day works for her. She then replied, any day really, and then we got into this game where I just said maybe another time. I have no idea why she'd make the effort to reach out to me via text if she had no intention of meeting up. Sounds like a fruitless endeavor.