"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Nobody understands me!!

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Anyone got the paragraph from David de Angelo's double your dating e book where he writes about telling a high maintenance girl that she puts on an act. That men give her attention all night, but she goes home crying at the end of the night because nobody understands whothe REAL her is!!

I bought the book years ago. I wrote notes, but that computer broke.

Was just wondering if anyone could give me that paragraph as I'm trying to use that psychology on a woman RIGHT now!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lmao...now I see why so many guys have issues with women on this board.
 

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Lmao...now I see why so many guys have issues with women on this board.
LOL.. believe it or not...this technique worked on a high maintenance girl in 2012. She loved it.
 

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I'm going to try & get my computer repaired...if I cannot, I will buy another copy of book. Great book!
 

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Anyone got the paragraph from David de Angelo's double your dating e book where he writes about telling a high maintenance girl that she puts on an act. That men give her attention all night, but she goes home crying at the end of the night because nobody understands whothe REAL her is!!

I bought the book years ago. I wrote notes, but that computer broke.

Was just wondering if anyone could give me that paragraph as I'm trying to use that psychology on a woman RIGHT now!
Do your own research, it’s what a man does…
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do your own research, it’s what a man does…
I tried looking on internet for it, but nothing. Was just wondering if someone had the book (like I did) they could send me that paragraph or two
 

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Something about telling her you know she has a little girl inside of her who just wants to feel joy and that you see past her facade blah blah, that you know most people only see her for her beauty but that you appreciate her for who she is blah blah. I prefer ****y funny though, which he also preaches. "Has anyone ever told you that you can be a little dramatic at times?" with a dead pan face. Hahaha.

Why on earth would you want to date a high maintenance woman? But yeah, it's essentially ignoring the surface level conversation and appealing directly to her emotions she's trying to obfuscate.
 

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It was probably beautiful women he was on about, not high maintenance.
 

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Anyone got the paragraph from David de Angelo's double your dating e book where he writes about telling a high maintenance girl that she puts on an act. That men give her attention all night, but she goes home crying at the end of the night because nobody understands whothe REAL her is!!

I bought the book years ago. I wrote notes, but that computer broke.

Was just wondering if anyone could give me that paragraph as I'm trying to use that psychology on a woman RIGHT now!
While at it, don't forget to buy her flowers and dress up in your best sunday clothes.

Whisper closely to her ears and sing a few lines of Celine Dion songs. She'll melt right into your arms and directly into your bed the same night.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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That makes me gag.

Hot women aren’t putting on an act. They are exactly as they come across.

A hot chick that cries despite all of male attention she gets? Da fuq?

I’m sure Chad is also home crying his eyes out because girls just don’t “get him” lol.
 
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