She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Principles my g, I’m on a forum talking to sub par humans obviously. Where the real g’s at? I can buy her place right now.So you have money for coke and weed, but currently worried about 2 hidden beers and a missing pack of cigs.
Get your mental priorities in line.
She bought me cigs, came home and bounced again.
i Told her I know she stole from me, I told her the girls coming back was tit for tat behaviours
I told her I was gonna bring a girl back tonight she said ok.
I love her and hate her, fvck this I’m getting s girl back tonight
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Yes, whining about something that minuscule is usually what women like to do.This is not Alpha behavior.
Dont let your emotion get the best of you.
GL
Are you 28 or 12? Now I see why women your age date guys my age and say they are tired of the immaturity with guys their own age.She bought me cigs, came home and bounced again.
i Told her I know she stole from me, I told her the girls coming back was tit for tat behaviours
I told her I was gonna bring a girl back tonight she said ok.
I love her and hate her, fvck this I’m getting s girl back tonight
I said that to her,If a woman does too Many strange things or disrespects you its just an incompatibility nothing to figure out.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
We cant even say anything.I said that to her,
“Sara we are like oil and water, you’re on your own now and when you move out I’m not continuing this friendship”
She said she wanted to remain friends, but my friends don’t rob from my house. I have arranged a date with some chick Kirsty for next Friday, moving on.
Block number and emails. All reminders eliminated.I bounced this whole situation among some friends just now and they said I did the right thing, I’m happy to close this chapter now lol
Of the chick I live with?Block number and emails. All reminders eliminated.
One of you has to moveOf the chick I live with?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I give you 1 week lol.I said that to her,
“Sara we are like oil and water, you’re on your own now and when you move out I’m not continuing this friendship”
She said she wanted to remain friends, but my friends don’t rob from my house. I have arranged a date with some chick Kirsty for next Friday, moving on.
Maybe he should be thanking her for delaying him being able to kill himself quicker.Too hyped over cigs man.
It might be misplaced or stolen or taken by aliens. It doesn't matter, calm down, no need for useless drama - it degrades a man.
Rational course of action is buying a new pack and then keeping it with you or some place hidden like a drawer.
Problem solved.
HahaMaybe he should be thanking her for delaying him being able to kill himself quicker.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.