Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Do you think there is a connection between being unemployed and developing an addiction to p0rn?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://www.vox.com/first-person/2018/9/15/17859134/recession-financial-crisis-2018-men

There seems to be a lot of "p0rn addicition" here:

I also spoke with guys like Yates, a former partner at a law firm in the Northeast who quit his job in his 40s. Although he became a stay-at-home dad, he did not look for work, instead depending on his soon-to-be ex-wife’s income. He got into trouble with the IRS, abused prescription drugs, and became addicted to pornography; eventually his wife divorced him. He is one of many in the well-educated, relatively well-to-do category.
I also spoke to many women whose husbands didn’t work. Many of them told me about not only increased emotional and financial stress but also problems including alcoholism, porn addiction, and increased anger from the men in their lives.
my opinion: I think it's just that these men have LOTS of free time for the first time in their lives during the internet era, and it's near impossible to not come across this. Do an experiment: make up a common woman's name and do an internet search and go to images; I guarantee that there is going to be a least one nudie pic in the list. And if you go that link, you will be in a vortex of nudie pics very quickly. This might be the first time since reading their friends' Playboy/Penthouse/Hustler mags in high school that they've seen p0rn.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If your unemployed you should be looking for work. That means less free time.
 

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Definitely!

If you're unemployed, your chances of meeting chicks and getting laid, will dramatically will decrease!

You may not have the funds to go out to the bars and clubs, or to dress well.

Men without employment are much more likely to develop some form of depression, which is NEVER an attractive thing to a female..

Confidence levels drop, health goes down hill, unless you still make an effort to hit the gym.

In this situation , the quickest and easiest solution for most dudes would more than likely be, to jack off to porn.
 

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://www.vox.com/first-person/2018/9/15/17859134/recession-financial-crisis-2018-men

There seems to be a lot of "p0rn addicition" here:





my opinion: I think it's just that these men have LOTS of free time for the first time in their lives during the internet era, and it's near impossible to not come across this. Do an experiment: make up a common woman's name and do an internet search and go to images; I guarantee that there is going to be a least one nudie pic in the list. And if you go that link, you will be in a vortex of nudie pics very quickly. This might be the first time since reading their friends' Playboy/Penthouse/Hustler mags in high school that they've seen p0rn.
In all these cases these men had an SO. Guess their wives were not good enough for them after all.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Your job if you have no job is to look for a job...

Excuses...
 

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You can't jerk off full time. I tried... you'll get sore and raw, not to mention, feeling bad for not accomplishing anything constructive.

This whole wanking + porn thing is blown way out of proportion.

Nobody wants to put Mr. Happy into the meat grinder. OUCH!!!:eek:
 

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No.
 

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What if you are "retired"?
Or...own your own business. Business owners are not employees, and are therefore 'unemployed'.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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