Girl didn't reply?

[niceguytoalphamale]

Was talking to a hb 7 or 8 today. Anyways she was super keen sending 3 messages to my 1 message. I took time to reply of course lol. And I mentioned catching up for a coffee she likes that idea. Then I said ok we will meet soon. Bam no reply.. what the he'll happened here? Btw shes been online on Facebook.

 

[HankHill]

Seems to be a very common thing in the OLD world these days i.e. the flakiness, fickleness in women. Could be multiple reasons, two most common ones are a 'Chad' hit her up or two she just wanted attention/validation and the min you asked her out she got it and moved on. Nothing you can do about it. Move on to the next girl, may be this one will come back and may be she won't.

 

[jaymbrs]

Was talking to a hb 7 or 8 today. Anyways she was super keen sending 3 messages to my 1 message. I took time to reply of course lol. And I mentioned catching up for a coffee she likes that idea. Then I said ok we will meet soon. Bam no reply.. what the he'll happened here? Btw shes been online on Facebook.

You missed the opportunity to set an exact date and time. Being vague turned it off for her. Put yourself in her shoes. If some chick told you "we will meet soon", what are your thoughts? Mine go to game playing, prob has a boyfriend or too many other guys lined up ergo I'm not her first choice.

 

[Billtx49]

And I mentioned catching up for a coffee she likes that idea.

Then I said ok we will meet soon. Bam no reply..

Should have set a date immediately.

You left it hanging in the air. She’s probably in wait and see if you ask her out mode now…

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

It's really strange however she didn't delete me off Facebook so I guess there's another chance there..I'll have to wait for her to reach out.

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

You missed the opportunity to set an exact date and time. Being vague turned it off for her. Put yourself in her shoes. If some chick told you "we will meet soon", what are your thoughts? Mine go to game playing, prob has a boyfriend or too many other guys lined up ergo I'm not her first choice.

She didn't delete me from Facebook though? Lol

 

[dude99]

She didn't delete me from Facebook though? Lol

You answered with a closed end statement. See you soon. We will make plans soon. Or we will discuss later, are all closed end statements. Like saying bye for now.

She will keep you on FB for sure. You only ended the conversation not the frienship/ relationship.

Make plans. Dont be vague.

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

You answered with a closed end statement. See you soon. We will make plans soon. Or we will discuss later, are all closed end statements. Like saying bye for now.

She will keep you on FB for sure. You only ended the conversation not the frienship/ relationship.

Make plans. Dont be vague.

Ok so next time we speak I say coffee on xyx etc: it's almost like I can hook them then bang I freeze up and get scared lol

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

Buyers remorse, she doesn't really need you, she just wanted the validation.

I doubt it lol she is hot after all.. and I believe I'll get it.

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

Doesn't mean you won't get it by withholding validation but it does mean in the moment she lost desire.

I believe if she lost desire she would of deleted me from Facebook that's what i would do.

 

[Billtx49]

Ok so next time we speak I say coffee on xyx etc: it's almost like I can hook them then bang I freeze up and get scared lol

Try to reset your mental state when dealing with females to the point that, ‘I freeze up and get scared’ are no longer in your vocabulary…
Nothing does it more effectively than going for it and the experience level that action provides.

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

Try to reset your mental state when dealing with females to the point that, ‘I freeze up and get scared’ are no longer in your vocabulary…

Do you think I'll have another opportunity to get her on the date

 

[Billtx49]

Do you think I'll have another opportunity to get her on the date

She’s already reacted positively about your date suggestion to you. Remind her and definitely ask her out to answer your question.

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

She’s already reacted positively about your date suggestion to you. Remind her and definitely ask her out to answer your question.

I was more hoping she would hint at it then I can go bam set a date

 

[Billtx49]

I was more hoping she would hint at it then I can go bam set a date

Don’t expect the woman to lead, that’s your job…
You’re in this situation because you didn’t take action and set a date when you should have and now you expect her to lead you back into it. I hope that’s clear enough for you…

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

Don’t expect the woman to lead, that’s your job…
You’re in this situation because you didn’t take action and set a date when you should have and now you expect her to lead you back into it. I hope that’s clear enough for you…

Ok I'll message her in a coupleof days and ask her on a date

 

[The Diver]

it's almost like I can hook them then bang I freeze up and get scared

Your problem is not only getting a date with her (or any other women), your problem will be in the date itself- You "scared" of women and
"frezze up".Your lack of confidence will scare them off.

 

[sazc]

Was talking to a hb 7 or 8 today. Anyways she was super keen sending 3 messages to my 1 message. I took time to reply of course lol. And I mentioned catching up for a coffee she likes that idea. Then I said ok we will meet soon. Bam no reply.. what the he'll happened here? Btw shes been online on Facebook.

You said "hey we will meet soon"
She is now waiting for you to reach out and ask her, that's my guess

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

You said "hey we will meet soon"
She is now waiting for you to reach out and ask her, that's my guess

Sazc for a female your a really good contribution

 

[Glassguy]

Ok I'll message her in a coupleof days and ask her on a date

I wouldn't wait a couple of days if she showed very high interests. Go for the kill now and strike while the iron is hot.


"Hey stranger. Let's grab that coffee. What's your availability?"