Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
You missed the opportunity to set an exact date and time. Being vague turned it off for her. Put yourself in her shoes. If some chick told you "we will meet soon", what are your thoughts? Mine go to game playing, prob has a boyfriend or too many other guys lined up ergo I'm not her first choice.
Should have set a date immediately.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
She didn't delete me from Facebook though? Lol
You answered with a closed end statement. See you soon. We will make plans soon. Or we will discuss later, are all closed end statements. Like saying bye for now.
Ok so next time we speak I say coffee on xyx etc: it's almost like I can hook them then bang I freeze up and get scared lol
I doubt it lol she is hot after all.. and I believe I'll get it.
I believe if she lost desire she would of deleted me from Facebook that's what i would do.
Try to reset your mental state when dealing with females to the point that, ‘I freeze up and get scared’ are no longer in your vocabulary…
Do you think I'll have another opportunity to get her on the date
She’s already reacted positively about your date suggestion to you. Remind her and definitely ask her out to answer your question.
I was more hoping she would hint at it then I can go bam set a date
Don’t expect the woman to lead, that’s your job…
Ok I'll message her in a coupleof days and ask her on a date
Your problem is not only getting a date with her (or any other women), your problem will be in the date itself- You "scared" of women and
You said "hey we will meet soon"
Sazc for a female your a really good contribution
I wouldn't wait a couple of days if she showed very high interests. Go for the kill now and strike while the iron is hot.
