Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
You missed the opportunity to set an exact date and time. Being vague turned it off for her. Put yourself in her shoes. If some chick told you "we will meet soon", what are your thoughts? Mine go to game playing, prob has a boyfriend or too many other guys lined up ergo I'm not her first choice.
Should have set a date immediately.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
She didn't delete me from Facebook though? Lol
You answered with a closed end statement. See you soon. We will make plans soon. Or we will discuss later, are all closed end statements. Like saying bye for now.
Ok so next time we speak I say coffee on xyx etc: it's almost like I can hook them then bang I freeze up and get scared lol
I doubt it lol she is hot after all.. and I believe I'll get it.
I believe if she lost desire she would of deleted me from Facebook that's what i would do.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Try to reset your mental state when dealing with females to the point that, ‘I freeze up and get scared’ are no longer in your vocabulary…
Do you think I'll have another opportunity to get her on the date
She’s already reacted positively about your date suggestion to you. Remind her and definitely ask her out to answer your question.
I was more hoping she would hint at it then I can go bam set a date
Don’t expect the woman to lead, that’s your job…
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Ok I'll message her in a coupleof days and ask her on a date
Your problem is not only getting a date with her (or any other women), your problem will be in the date itself- You "scared" of women and
You said "hey we will meet soon"
Sazc for a female your a really good contribution
I wouldn't wait a couple of days if she showed very high interests. Go for the kill now and strike while the iron is hot.
