"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
mrgoodstuff
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mrgoodstuff
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Ain't no fitness model but it'll do.
RickTheToad
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No doubt.
mrgoodstuff
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Something is fvcked with her teeth and eyes. Other than that, have a good date, escalate, bang her and spin her as a plate. And keeping adding more chicks.
Everyone has to start somewhere in this dating game and I've smashed slightly worse than her.
Everyone has to start somewhere in this dating game and I've smashed slightly worse than her.
mrgoodstuff
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Most of the guys in the site can bang close to this level and it'd get them In the game.
logicallefty
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I would hit it. Borrow your d|cks. And hit it again.
RickTheToad
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Yea, the teeth caught my eye too. I do not see anything wrong with her eyes though. No one's perfect, but we'll see. I'm no Mr. Olympia, so whatever happens, happens. She's within 30 mins., so that's a plus.
One of the ladies I am talking to is half jew half italian (didn't even know they made those) and still lives at home in her 30's. The living with parents thing bothers me, but she's only 8 miles away. I am supposedly seeing her tomorrow. We'll see. I've dating jews and italians and they seem like nothing but trouble. Trying to go into it with an opened mind. I've skipped most who've messaged me who've are living with parents. However, she's been messaging me for a few months on different platforms and I'd thought to give it a shot and see where it goes.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Good deal man. Get out there and have fun. To expectations other than escalation (if the date is going well).
RickTheToad
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That's the plan. A little older than I originally wanted, but I thought it could be a stepping stone to get back to younger ladies. This also assumes they still look like their pics.
Dust 2 Dust
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6/10 on my scale. I'd do it.
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Yeah I would.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
RickTheToad
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Side note, one of the other ladies I was chatting with over the weekend sent me her number and I texted her a few hours ago. Silence. I double checked the number to make sure I typed in in correctly, but it was. Do I wait a few days and then reach out again or via the online app? She was pretty quick to respond to my messages on the app, so it's a bit puzzling.
Dust 2 Dust
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No sense in trying again. She saw your text and chose not to respond. You will get ghosted like a mofo on those apps.
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Like I always say, they are either fvckable or not fvckable. No in between. If they are fvckable and fun, continue but proceed with caution as always.
If you want to rate on a numbers scale, go for it. Those are my 2 brackets. 80% of women that are between 25 and 35 fall into the not fvckable because I am picky and they require more than good looks for me to even hook up.
Hmmm. I probably wouldnt bang her. I always go for chicks with a slamming body with a butta face or a chick with a cute/pretty face with a little bit of meat. this chick doesnt seem to meet that criteria, but you do you bro!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.